Is it normal to have feelings for an 18 yr old when your 12

Ok my sister whos 12 told me she had a crush on an 18yr old that was friends with her brother and that she really liked him.And she get butterflies when she thinks of him.

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  • alv1592

    Of course, it's normal for little young girls to like older guys. Just as long as he doesn't have a crush on her back, cause that would make him a pedo.

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    • Shaung1

      I wouldn't call it pedo, more like hebephile and at 18 your not a adult, scientifically your an adult when you are 20-21

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      • iEatZombies_

        18 is old old enough to know better than THAT.

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  • Imsupernormal

    The 18 yo should bang her

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  • Scarlettfox

    I've always liked older guys. I'm 17 and the only guys I've liked in the last year or so have been over 30. Oops!

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    • 53739

      what a coincidence I am over 30

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  • I had my first crush when i was only 8, for a friends older sister, she was 16.

    I had a high sex drive that developed early, i liked girls before most boys usually start to. I didn't know what it was, or what sex was, but i was drawn to her with such a weird feeling and would just stare at her body.

    I was a creepy child.

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    • dirtybirdy

      A creepy child, huh. What would you be now? No matter...., books! I have books now! Can I get a high five?!?! I'm reading boooooks!!! : D where are youuu?!?! This is epic! Don't be mean! High five!!!!!! Come on!!! Three books at once! Up high man come on!! Haha sorry.......high five?? Books!!

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      • dirtybirdy

        ***cat!!!*** Feel free to ask why I shared this information with you and and why I want (demand) a high five. .......................................I'm going away now

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        • It makes me a creepy adult, who was once a creepy child.

          And i'm more concerned about a 30 something being so excited about books.

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          • dirtybirdy

            It is a bit pathetic, yes. There's reasons why I havnt read in a long time. I won't tell my life story but your mention of kemper reminded me of most evil, which I loved and missed a bunch of episodes, and I was always interested in that stuff so I got me some books about serial killers. And a comedy. And i was excited about it damn it! We know I'm lame so it should be no surprise. I'll leave you alone now. High frikkin five. :( or not...meanie

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            • Oh ok. I just finished reading "the stranger beside me" a few weeks ago, it was quite amazing.

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  • randomness328

    Its the little sis her this guys 18 an i just started liking him an he "likes little girls" like younger girls and he told my brother he liked me but i dont really thing hes a pedo cuz theres nothing really wrong cuz he hasnt like touched me or said he want to have sex with me

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    • Dad

      Hi sweetypie.

      Look can you just put your big brother back on, because he's not suppose to allow his 12yo sis on here, as he might get banned!

      By the way, I think your brother is at fault here not you!
      I'll report the post so everyone's happy again :)

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Yeah, but I wouldn't recommend that she pursue him. She is still much too young, unless she is the one twelve year old out of millions that actually understands this stuff.

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    • VioletTrees

      This. It's normal for a 12 year old to want a romantic relationship with an 18 year old. It's NOT normal for an 18 year old to want a relationship with a 12 year old.

      Also, "friends with HER brother"? Is her brother not your brother?

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      • randomness328

        well yes he is my brother thats kinda what i ment

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Normal. As long as it's not the other way around. I always liked guys who were much older than me, myself. I just couldn't find attraction to the guys that were my own age.

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