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I have feelings for my cousin.. We are the same age and she is just all around perfect. I dont know what to do. We just click. No one gets me like she does and I cant help but feel like we were meant for each other. I can't imagine a relationship with someone but her. I live in georgia and she lives in Wisconsin but we talk all the time. Is it weird?
Okay, let's get real here. All funny comments and moral ethics aside. Let's pretend you don't care what anybody thinks; science and biology will severely punish you for mating with someone so close to your bloodline. Be smart, and find someone who isn't related to you. This is not normal at all.
No, it's not weird to be into someone that you click with. But remember that there is a possibility that you two click BECAUSE you're related. That said, unless you have a lax family or you don't care what your family thinks regardless, best not pursue it too much. Especially if you're a young age. Might not have met enough people yet.
If you like her why not?
Were I come from first cousins do have many times their first sex expiriences with each other and they get merried quite often. In my familly we have several.
Good luck.
Were you two raised together or close?(you said you live in different cities, so I assume you didn't). When you weren't raised or at least close during childhood, you actually don't perceive people as family. It is just taboo: if she's into you too, go for her.
"When you weren't raised or at least close during childhood, you actually don't perceive people as family."
True. Yet regardless of perception, in reality they still ARE family. Don't fool yourself into thinking something is automatically OK, just because it may feel OK. Regardless of perception it would still be incest. You don't want retarded children, right?