Is it normal to have fantasies about my boyfriend in a police uniform?

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Sometimes, when my boyfriend and I are having sex, I imagine him as a police officer, fucking me in a public restroom. This helps me finish much quicker than if I just focus on me and him having normal sex.
I don't really care for men in uniform, and I really don't like police officers, and I think public restrooms are disgusting. I have no idea where I even came up with this fantasy.
Is it normal, and does anyone have an explanation?

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    Respect his authority!

    Na, really, just because you dislike police and don't care for uniforms does NOT mean the same is true if your friend was part of that.

    I am slightly masochistic and like being dominated. But only by choosen partners. In everyday life i'm rather lively, stand up for myself or others, tend to have problems with authority that i don't understand...but in sexual stuff, i then willingly submit to a chosen partner.

    Understand what i mean? It's not the uniform, not the location...it's that your BOYFRIEND is mentally "enhanced" with an uniform, giving him a role of power that you would not like on anyone else...and the location is something dirty, something semi-exposed, somewhere he is applying that "power" to have sex with you.

    I am sorry for not being able to explain it better, but please be assured psychologically it's quite normal. Why not give it a try?
    You don't have to go with an uniform at first, but you can attempt to have sex in other locations and tell him to be a bit rougher during that, see if you like that and take it from there...

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    it's just role-play. doesn't mean it's what you want in real life.

    but if you really like it i'd suggest seeing if he would want to act out the role you're thinking of...

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    george is that you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Uhh, no? This is a serious question..

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      • flutterhigh
        11 years ago

        Jeffrey, is that you?

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Why don't you two role-play?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Yeah..what TerryVie said. She seems to have about the most insight to eroticism of anyone. Like a modern day "Dr. Ruth" who's been there, done that. Kudos.

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  • BlackDays
    11 years ago

    It could be any number of reasons for this. Or maybe there isn't any real reason. Maybe its like the idea of an authority figure 'teaching you a lesson' in a dirty place? Are the handcuffs and night stick being used? Does he question you thoroughly under a hot light? Does he 'plant evidence' in 'your pocket'? Am I now asking for too many details? Yes, but seriously, it could be anything that gives you these thoughts. I say, just enjoy it :)

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