Is it normal to have emotional problems
I am 18 and i have a girlfriend that is the same age as me and i have always had a problem with her maturity level or I might have emotional problems i don't really know. My girlfriend has never really been exposed to the outside world by which i mean that she has never been able to do what ever she has wanted to do when she was little and she has the personality of a 10 year old she will laugh really loudly at a movie theater she kinda acts like we are still in high school but we are both in college but she is in a different town than i am for her university where she is always around new people and making new friends where i go to community college where there are people who don't know you and dont want to know you. I had always told her that she has immaturity problems that are kinda affecting me because my father who is divorced from my mom had never really told me anything about being a man or anything like that and he has the same maturity level as my girlfriend and I would tell her that stuff and I would have problems of what to say because I have ADD(Attention Defecit Disorder)and I had problems with talking but not with sight. I would end up saying that I have problems with everything and it ends up being other people feeling sorry for me which I absolutley hate because my father had always done that shit and Im afraid im turning into my father who acts like im his distant friend who would never call me I would have to call him but I only need money from him because he always plays these denial games. He claims he is gay but i now for certain he is mentaly ill and has sex addiction, and recently I have feelings of wanting to beat the shit out of homosexuals but the thing is i feel like im becoming one of them and i really dont want to be one of them because it would make me like my father and I am extremely against homosexuality. But I how do I know if my girlfriend really is immature or its the emotional damage caused by my father. I had recently lost my job which is problem for me because i had that job mostly because it was a way to meet new people I have become a complete shut-in where i dont really do very many social things out of the house and I even dont go to my classes sometimes. Please tell me what i should do.