Is it normal to have dreams about you best friend and her boyfriend

well i walked in on them one day and i cant get it out of my head is it normal or am i crazy

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74% Normal
Based on 42 votes (31 yes)
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  • O1108

    The usual thing most people do to begin with is call to see if they are there or busy. If you did, I would guess they had it planned for you to walk in on them. You could also try knocking on the OUTSIDE door first. If there is no answer and you know she's there, you turn and leave or leave a note.

    Next, if she hollers for you to come in, chances are it was, again, planned for you to see. Even though they told you to stay, watch, join in, if you were uncomfortable, you didn't have to stay and watch. Like seeing something totally disgusting, the farther out of our norm, the harder it will be to forget.

    If that's the desires of all three of you, by all means, have a great time. Yes, its awkward the first time.

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  • matches

    I think its normal because we all have sexual desires and our kinky desires too. I think its what makes us human and who we are.You can not control your dream world anyway.I hope this helps

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  • You have to be more open with your question. When you stated that you walked in on your best friend and her boyfriend, I am assuming when they were intimate, right? Well, if you did are you having dreams about joining them or them in general? Were you interested in her boyfriend before? What all did you see?

    I'm not trying to be a pervert but to answer this we kind of need more information. If you just glanced for a "half-a-second" and dashed away, it wasn't enough to really remember and it will go away with a little time. If you stayed and watched them go at it, it may stay with you for a little while. Either way, you will be fine with a little more time.

    However, if you talk about it with them, it may keep things fresh in your mind for a while longer so I will keep it to yourself for a while. On the other hand, if you want to talk to them about it, go ahead but you don't have to.

    Either way, like previous loves in your life and bad experiences, the effect will fade with time and eventually days will go by without you even thinking about it.

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    • jpkpkp

      well okay i stayed and watched but i wouldnt have if they hadnt told me to they wanted me to join in but i couldnt and now with the dreams i think it might be regret is it normal that i want to sleep with them both and attracked to both

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      • Oh Bud's just a big prying arsehole. Never mind him.

        You got exposed to more than you needed to. What weirdos. As for yourself, you set pretty normal boundaries & didn't get involved. Stay with those.

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