Is it normal to have deeply in love with a girl 15 years younger to me

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I am 40 years old married man for last 12 years, 3 years back a young sweet girl entered into my life and become my love. Our relationship grew leaps and bounds in just few weeks and we always enjoy each others company, occassionaly stay together and go on holidays and want to be together as much as possible. Since we were never sure of how this relationship will survive, we never had sex But it seems impossible for both of us to live without each other. As she is getting pressure from family to get married, we dont how we will carry our relationship. Is it right to continue being in with love even after being married. I never fallen in Love with my wife:(

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Based on 56 votes (21 yes)
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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    Why did you get married if you never loved your wife?

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    I feel so sorry for your wife!! Hopefully she will leave your sorry arse!

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  • party_in_my_pants666
    11 years ago

    Why is everyone saying "poor wife" did it pop up in your thick skulls for one second that she might be the reason why this guy fell in love with someone else? Not saying it is but don't rule that out cus she doesn't know she's being cheated on,women can do sadistic meanful shit too.

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    • captblood44
      9 years ago

      @party_in_: LOL its either an arranged marriage or you are right LOL

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    I think it was an arranged marriage. Same thing happened to my brother he married someone he didn't like just to get everyone of his back it ended it tears it is a shame because his wife was my favourite sister in law.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    Why marry in the first place? Pointless to me!!!

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    • captblood44
      9 years ago

      key word: HOLIDAY, not vacation, HOLIDAY. clue to its another culture, not yours. some cultures, you marry who daddy decides you should marry. make it your mission in life to see what country this guy is from and go over and change that culture. GO. you have your mission in life

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  • assdfghjkl
    12 years ago

    well, it's not abnormal and that is unfortunate because it is very wrong and unfair to your wife. The girl is stupid for allowing her family to pressure her into marriage and you are even stupider for caring that her family is pressuring her. Your poor poor wife :(

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Changing my response: you're married. Stop cheating on your wife.

    Saying how much you love your mistress does not justify adultery.

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