Is it normal to have crush on a friend and still be unable to talk?

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So it's like when i moved to my new school i befriended a girl.She was my only friend for the entire first grade and since our homes were close we kind of started spending time together.

It was pretty normal friendship but eventually I started feeling a little different for her.To do away with such feelings i changed my school when in 10th grade,call it luck,coincidence or something else she too got admitted in the same.

When my feelings got intense I decided to express it to her, just to realize that she already had a boyfriend.This thing broke me and it took me close to 4 months to get out of it.

Currently I am out of school(and so is she);this thing of knowing her has come close to 13 years and happened to meet her somewhere and started to feel the same. Now she doesn't have a boyfriend and can be a good chance for me but sometimes I feel that she just sees me as a friend,I like her a lot but don't want to hurt her even though I may get hurt from it.

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  • clevelandashkenaziatheist
    9 years ago

    The best advice in these situations is to stop worrying and just do it. You've got a really good chance, being a good friend.

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