Is it normal to have butterflies again with your ex boyfriend?

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okay, so i met my ex boyfriend a year and a half ago. we dated for 10 months with a few bad fights, but we got through them. in may was when we broke up for good. we talked until September and than i moved on. he moved on 3 days after me. me and my boyfriend broke up, him and his girlfriend are still together. I felt like there was something missing from my life so i texted him 3 weeks ago. and ever since then, it seems like we started over. things are like the first time we talked again. he said he doesn't know what to do. he's not a bad guy at all. i don't want to around for him but than again, something is telling me something good will happen if i do. the saying "when you can't get someone off your mind, maybe they're supposed to be there" i think that's true. im going to try to move on again, but i know i'll always love him. it feels right. what do i do? listen to my heart or mind?

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  • TheW1fey
    13 years ago

    Well I for one, got back with an ex after so long, and we are married with 3 children now. Some things are meant to be as others aren't, but you will never know until you take that step, let your guard down and try. Good luck with what ever decision you make! Also as someone above said, everyone fights, no relationship is perfect, you just have to make the best of it and make it perfect for you and no one else.

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  • vienna666
    13 years ago

    Very normal, however I don't think you should act on these feelings. If he is with someone I would just leave him be because old habits die hard and trust me. You don't want to get yourself hurt again. I have been in this situation before things never truely go back to the way they were in the beginning, just move on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    very very very normal, i think

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    The ability to deny our impulses is the very thing that makes us human. So no I wouldn't base your decision off of mindless emotions.

    But on the positive end, anything is normal when you're in love.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    No.

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  • dot_r_loser
    13 years ago

    very normal, I've had the same feelings before. I ended up getting back with my ex, and it was for the best. People fight and break up all the time. If you still feel this way about him. Try and get back together, otherwise you might regret it later.

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