Is it normal to have been bi, but now your straight?

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A while back, out of curiosity, me and my friend would give each other oral sex, but ever since then and not talking to him, I haven't. I really was never attracted to men and don't know why I did it, but I have a girlfriend now and she doesn't know, but idk if I tell her she will be freaked out or anything, I really regret doing it too. Is this normal? And btw I'm extremely attracted to women. I love sex, and am a homophobe but yet I did this?

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  • MoeLester
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's normal but stupid and weird. Why the fuck would you suck a dick if you're afraid of gayness? Creeper.

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  • smartpatrol11
    11 years ago

    No real need to tell your GF either she doesnt need to know

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      yah she doesnt need to know . Its in the past dont say anything also I have simalar questions about this kindve thing ... follow my second two posts with the links please

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      • Allistalla
        11 years ago

        http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-be-gay-anymore-but-still-have-gay-tendencies-127603/?n=y

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  • 1776
    11 years ago

    Why are u homophobe?!?! Thats whats fucked up here i think...

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  • freaxx
    11 years ago

    i used to be straight but the realized that i was bi.
    it just takes awhile for some people to find themselves

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  • theaverageatheist
    11 years ago

    if you wheren't atracted to tha same sex when you did that i find it a little strange espechaly for a man but sexuality does change over time.

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  • somanydumbpeople
    11 years ago

    Yup, sexuality is ever changing. What we're attracted to can change just as easily as our taste in music can. Don't limit yourself with a label.

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    your streight now all that matters is what your doing now ^^ ... if you were streight once and became gay thats good too dont let your past haunt you , you dont have to be anything becuase somthing happened in the past it what you do now that really means anything so you dont have to identify with anthing your not comfortable with its up to you ... if someone says you have to be gay or call your self gay becuase you did soemthing gay in the past just smack them its not anyone decision what you identify with except yourself .. however if your gonna start doing ovbiusly exgeratedly homo stuff but still insist your streight may confused people but its your chose not anyone elses do what you want and no one can dictate your sexuelity its your decision Good luck hope this comment helped love "

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  • YawningBober
    11 years ago

    It's no wonder you're a homophobe. Yeah it's normal though, just never cheat on your girlfriend ok?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    Just because you had homosexual experiences in your past does not mean you are obliged to have them again now.

    You sound like you've chosen your girlfriend.

    Does a label or "bi" or "straight" really matter if you're in a committed relationship with one person?

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  • Hoohahohyahhh
    11 years ago

    That's too far dude...oral dude? Damn dude. Too much

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  • NerdyChickFTW
    11 years ago

    Experimentation is normal, no matter what anyone says, and even if you regret it. You were just bicurious at the time, not bisexual. It's not a big deal, and I don't think your girlfriend would be weirded out or anything if you explained the situation. After all, it is in the past.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Sexuality doesn't change, it's fixed. Every gay person ever has been trying to get people to understand this. You BI liars (biars) are just insulting to the brain.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      just becuase he had past sexuel expierences does not mean he has to continue he is not gay becuase of this . It is not fixed as much as you wish it would be and it never will be a gay person can do streight stuff and a streight person can do gay stuff and decide I did not like that I think ill stay streight he is not gay cuase had sex with a dude he can choose if he wants .

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        You shut your mouth you...you..abomination of rational thought...you don't shit...about anything..

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          I could not auctully read that do you mean " I dont give a shit "? no Im indifferent I dont think with any particulaer love or hate toarse most things I try to be indifferent unless like most poeple .

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          • [Old Memory]
            11 years ago

            "no Im indifferent I dont think with any particulaer love or hate toarse most things I try to be indifferent unless like most poeple "

            " I could not auctully read that do you mean"

            Hahahahaha..seems more like you can't read.....or spell well enough to read.

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              you dont shit ? about anything ? are you saying I do not have the ability to go to the bathroom ? You realize if I did not have the ability I would die from my own body being infected with filth I could not expel ? I do not have any idea what waste has to do with this conversation . You shocked I am paying attetion for once ?

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  • cookiesaregreat
    11 years ago

    You don't sound very bi to me.

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  • caity202
    11 years ago

    You were probably just experimenting, and figuring out your sexuality. It's pretty normal, lots of people do this.

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