Is it normal to have ballbusting fantasies?

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So it started a couple of years ago when I was clicking on random videos Youtube and saw one video where a girl kicked a guy in the nuts. At first I was like, "Holy shit, that must hurt!" Then I moved on and proceeded to watch other random videos. But it left a deeper impression than I had anticipated.

Couple of days later I found myself going back to that video and watching it again, reading the comments to see what other people had said. And go back again and again from time to time. And each time I watched, I liked it more and more. And I was getting aroused by it.I thought it was a passing phase. Boy was I wrong.

Then later I intentionally started searching for such videos on Youtube. I watched them and was satisfied. I started doing it from time to time, maybe every couple of days. But it wasn't enough. Then I started googling and for the first time saw ballbusting videos. I didn't know it was a thing. Frankly, I was horrified by some of the videos and vouched not to watch them again.

But my urges got the better of me and couple of days later I went back and watched, got horrified again, and stopped. This would repeat for next couple of days.. weeks. Then at one point I started liking watching them. So much so that I pleasured myself to the point of climax.

Ever since, I have been regularly watching ballbusting videos from time to time. That's not the only kind of porn I watch but I have seen all sorts of such videos. From women kicking guys in the nuts to stepping on them.

I know it's painful but I do fantasize about women busting my balls. Although I don't know whether I would want to try it in real life.

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MyRodIsLongAndThick

7 years ago

You like seeing women bust the sacks of men that's disgusting when you bust the sack its ruined forever that's fucking disgusting

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I don't know what you think ballbusting is but I can tell you what you think definitely is incorrect. Ballbusting is a form of BDSM and it doesn't lead to permanent damage. Like any other form of BDSM, it does have that potential. But just like when BDSM is done correctly and safely, it doesn't cause permanent damage, neither does ballbusting.
  
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Ellenna

7 years ago

Well you're yet another example of someone becoming addicted to fantasising about harmful acts depicted in porn.

You don't say if you're male or female but either way it's just not healthy to be so obsessed with something which almost inevitably results in permanent damage.

If you really can't stop watching this garbage even though you want to, you are addicted to it and you need to get professional help or find a 12 step Sex Addicts Anonymous group.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  "I know it's painful but I do fantasize about women busting my balls."
  
  What part of it didn't you understand? Of course I am a guy.
  
  Alright, looks like almost everyone who has commented is confused. Maybe I should have clarified a bit more in my original post what ballbusting is.
  
  First of all, ballbusting doesn't mean permanently damaging a man's genitals. No way! That would be terrible. It's a form of BDSM. BDSM doesn't cause permanent injury. But if you aren't careful enough, it has the potential to. Same goes for ballbusting.
  
  Ballbusting is basically delivering punishment to the balls, say for example, by kicking or slapping or kneeing. But how hard or light those hits are depends on the person doing it.
  
  The knee-jerk reaction is quite obvious. People are repelled by unconventional things that they don't understand. There was a time when homosexuality was considered a disorder that people need to be cured of.
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    7 years ago
    
    Sorry, that was very silly of me! Using the word "busting" in relation to testicles makes it sound brutal and capable of causing permanent injury so I'm glad that's not what you're thinking of risking.
    
    I'm not repelled by it and it doesn't seem particularly unconventional to me. I do understand the lure of risky sex but I also know the dangers. Be safe eh?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Thanks! :)
      
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  - Thorolf
    
    7 years ago
    
    Also, homosexuality doesn't hurt or humiliate anybody. This does.
    
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  - Thorolf
    
    7 years ago
    
    Kicking someone in the balls, especially repeatedly, is VERY bad for them. Testicles are very delicate. You'd have to put only a small amount of pressure into the kick in order to not do damage.
    
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- BookLover
  
  7 years ago
  
  it's a guy.
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    7 years ago
    
    OK, even more important that he doesn't progress (or regress?) to doing this in real life unless he wants to have a very brief sex life
    
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    - BookLover
      
      7 years ago
      
      Yeah. I don't think he will though
      
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sunshinemoonlight

7 years ago

lots of guys secretly love the idea of getting hit in their balls, because most guys like to act tough but that's their weak spot and they know that any girl can bring a guy to his knees with just one hard kick between his legs. it's a dominant-submissive thing where guys feel ashamed of being hurt by a girl. also during normal sex the guy usually takes control but when a girl is ballbusting a guy she is in charge. it's not that they really want to cause damage to themselves but just the idea of being weak and vulnerable in front of a girl can be a turn on to some guys. The pain would obviously be physical but the fetish is mostly mental and psychological. that a woman is seeing a guy's crotch (whether he's wearing pants/underwear or naked, whether or not he has an erection) but she is not getting turned on at all and instead wants to inflict pain and misery on him.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  You are the only one who actually understands what ballbusting is. Everyone else thinks it's a way to permanently damage a man's gonads.
  
  You are right. It's a dom/sub thing. It's more the humiliation and giving up control that's the turn on.
  
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  - sunshinemoonlight
    
    7 years ago
    
    I know what you mean. It's always the dynamic between the male and female involved that makes it interesting and arousing.
    
    Part of the humiliation is that the male is getting put through an intense stress test while the female is barely breaking a sweat. That is what gives the female a sense of power. For example, I saw a video where a girl kicks a guy between his legs and he is rolling around on the floor in pain, and she gets down behind him and pretends to be in pain, moaning, and making faces like him, basically mocking him.
    
    In another video the guy was clearly in pain and almost crying and begging her to stop, saying please and how she didn't know what it was like to have balls. She responded by saying that he didn't know what it was like to have periods and what childbirth felt like, and then she kicked him again. Basically she was trivializing his pain and saying that it meant nothing to her.
    
    In the same video she said something along the lines of how much it would suck for her to have balls, knowing they could get hurt at any time, how balls were so weak and vulnerable, just dangling there uselessly and pathetically, and how it even seemed like they were almost perfectly designed to be kicked and injured.
    
    It's all the mind games that sinks in and makes the fetish more engrossing. She later asks him why he even has balls if they only give him pain, and he says that they can sometimes give him pleasure too, and then she asks him if he's getting pleasure right now (during the ballbusting session), he answers no, then she asks him if that's true why does he still have an erection, which would imply that he's liking it. And so she continues hurting him. Of course he has a safety word but barely uses it (and that part is often removed from the video).
    
    What makes ballbusting and a few other fetishes so psychologically strong is that the idea is to completely disregard the man as a sexual being, eliminating the thought that he is capable of sexually pleasing the woman, or that she would ever be attracted to him. It's objectification to an extreme. It's the dominant-submissive attitude of seeing a girl's foot about to kick a guy between his legs and as he winces in preparation for the impact, she gives him a fake kick just to test his nervous reaction and she laughs at how scared he is.
    
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    - Thorolf
      
      7 years ago
      
      That's extremely fucked up.
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      That's very insightful! I would love to watch those videos if you still have a link.
      
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peanut1982

6 years ago

Another thing, if you haven’t got some kind of interest in ballbusting, why the interest in a page on ballbusting???

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peanut1982

6 years ago

I can’t comment on what’s normal, who’s to say what normal is. I like ball busting, and yet I can’t have children due to injuries I sustained when I was a child. Ball busting is damaging, but so are many cbt acts. We can’t help what our fantasies are, and if everyone’s fantasies were the same, sex would be boring. Anyone that calls another persons fantasies wrong or abnormal, is just not looking at the big picture. Do what you want and enjoy what you like, as long as both parties involved are happy to do so. The only thing I know that is normal, is we are all different and all have different fantasies.

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Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

7 years ago

Of course it's normal. Why the hell would you even question it? Sure the material you are watching sounds a little extreme and may even be physically harmful but you have to find your own limit. CBT is very common. The range is wide - from a smack on a bad boy's naughty c*ck, to pushing high heels into a set of disobedient testicals to kicking an erection harder... find a willing partner and explore your limits.

If you're kinky and you know it...never mind your hands are probably tied :)

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Thorolf

7 years ago

You sick little freak... No, that's definitely not normal at all.

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Mike_hunt

7 years ago

Dude, Jack off to whatever you want. Except that weird tranny shit, I don't get those guys

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Terence_the_viking

7 years ago

You are a sadist.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  No. I am a masochist. Sadist is the giver, masochist is the receiver.
  
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  - Terence_the_viking
    
    7 years ago
    
    Watcher counts too.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Yes they do. But I don't watch sadist videos. So I am not a sadist.
      
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donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

7 years ago

so a hillary voter then?

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- RamenNoodleMaster#2
  
  7 years ago
  
  LOL well he'd have one thing in common with Bill. We know who wears the pants in that household.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  No, are you kidding? Why vote that wench? Trump all the way. Make America great again!
  
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Cheet0

7 years ago

Uh I guess if you are female maybe, but if ur a guy no way...

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- Joey2
  
  7 years ago
  
  Speak for yourself, I am a guy and the thought of it gives me a boner even though I know it would hurt and won't dare to provoke a girl to do it, I love rubbing my balls against my girl friend's legs. But you are gay, so you won't understand what straight guys find arousing, but you have no right to judge us from your perception!
  
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- Ellenna
  
  7 years ago
  
  It didn't occur to me that OP could be female but you could be right.
  
  I think it's a weird turnon regardless, because obviously it leads to permanent injury
  
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  - Cheet0
    
    7 years ago
    
    My point...
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Alright, looks like almost everyone who has commented is confused. Maybe I should have clarified a bit more in my original post what ballbusting is.
  
  First of all, ballbusting doesn't mean permanently damaging a man's genitals. No way! That would be terrible. It's a form of BDSM. BDSM doesn't cause permanent injury. But if you aren't careful enough, it has the potential to. Same goes for ballbusting.
  
  Ballbusting is basically delivering punishment to the balls, say for example, by kicking or slapping or kneeing. But how hard or light those hits are depends on the person doing it.
  
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