Is it normal to have an insecure lover/spouse?

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To get to the point, im in a relationship with my bf/baby daddy and we've been together for 2 1/2 years and im pregnant with our second child. in the past i have cheated on him once and told him everything. i kept it real, i told him the same night it happened. well, he gave me another chance but now, he's like really insecure and he claims to have gotten over it but i just dont think he ever will. WILL WE EVER HAVE ANY CHANCE IN THE FUTURE WITH EACH OTHER? i just dont see it happening. we get into so many fights if im not home when he expects me to be home. he has a problem with me leaving the house if he's not with me or can basically see what im doing. he says i need to make friends but whenever i seem to go out with those friends, he has a problem because he cant see what im doing. Whenever i do return home, he always puts the blame on me and it really hurts my feelings because i know exactly what im doing and i know that i learned my lesson the last time but it's like he just doubts everything i do. It's like he's waiting for me to cheat again. HELP PLZ!

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  • Rats
    8 years ago

    good luck man. personally speaking, i am 100% monogomous; if im with you then im with YOU and i dont need anybody else. if it had been me, not only would ya have been out on yer proverbial @$$ but ya would sleep on your TUMMY for a WEEK. word up.

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    completely normal. so what if he's insecure and a little paranoid, i would be to if someone cheated on me. be grateful he has given you a second chance.

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  • BrightEyes
    14 years ago

    This sounds like an episode of Maury.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    You refer to him as your "baby daddy", cheat, don't have a functioning relationship at all, and now you are pregnant again?

    Where are your priorities?

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  • VentingQueen78
    14 years ago

    Unfortunately when the bonds of trust are broken it can take a long time to re-establish them. He has every right to feel the ways he does and if you and him truly love each other you both will just give it time. Time for his heart to heal and for you to reprove your trust worthiness.

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