Is it normal to have a surge of sexual desire at age 80?

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Due to prostate cancer, I had surgery that made me unable to have erections or orgasms. Suddenly at age 80, I had a big increase in sexual desire, similar to when I was in my twenties. I can't pleasure myself so I started giving my wife oral sex 4 to 5 times a week. My wife is in her 70's and no longer has any interest in sex but she willingly allows me to do this due to my condition. She has multiple orgasms every time but would still prefer I not do it. She just accommodates me. Do you think what I am doing is OK, or should I just suck it up and endure it?

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Damn dude depressing and random as fuck at the same time

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  • MissWolf
    4 years ago

    That's a true bummer. I'm sorry for both of your situation

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    This sounds terrible.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      For him or her?

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      • litelander8
        4 years ago

        Him with a desire that can’t be filled. And I suppose for her as well. Being that she has no desire to fulfill her spouse.

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