Is it normal to have a sexual relationship with a much older woman?

I'm 19, and I recently started talking to an old friend of my father's. She's 48. She's really not attractive, and many guys my age would find her gross, but she makes me hard. I tend to follow my instincts, so I started flirting with her, and she responded very well. By the end of our conversation she had called me "hottie" many times. I did everything I could to convey my interest in her without actual saying "Hey, I wanna fuck you." Anyways, I'm almost certain I can hook up with this woman if I wish... would it be normal to do so?

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Based on 245 votes (154 yes)
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Comments ( 17 )
  • monkeysee68

    Go for it sweety. If there's one thing an older woman understands it's "no strings attached sex". Who knows, you could both really enjoy it!

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  • Flasher

    Go for it. You are both adults. She could teach you a few things. "STDs"?!?...just be as safe as you would with anybody else. She won't get pregnant. The older you, the older you get. You will be surprised.

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  • lovebuzz1025

    Meh. Do what you wanna do. You're an adult

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  • MILF!

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  • nohiddenpath

    I think it is normal for you to be turned on by her. My fiance is 56 and I am 34. We are so inlove w/ eachother it's not funny. But back to you. You need to let her know that you respect her and her feelings. See if she would be interested in casual foreplay or sex. Let her know that it might not be your intention to start any sort of intimate or serious relationship. But you must set these guidlines and be sure there is a mutual understanding of the boundries of your relationship. If she is respectful of you and your feelings, she won't pressure you to commit the rest of your life to her. She should understand that you are still a teenager and have a long life to live. But have fun with eachother. Don't limit yourself just becasue hse is older and your friends might not find her attractive. Maybe start a conversation about bras and ask to see her bra. There are many exciting things in store for you. Most important, be respectful of eachothers boundries and feelings. Good luck.

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  • bessielamb

    Yes, it would be normal. What turns you on, and what turns on another 19 year old guy, will often be totally different. That's just how it is. I've always loved older men. Hell, my husband is 20 years older than me, lol. I'm 18 and he is 38 :)

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    • luckynj

      Any reason for liking older guy? how did you find your older husband? Don't you feel age differnece for mental level and maturity. I observe that your comments are quite mature. I am aslo an older guy married with my wife 4 years junior. Please share your experience.
      Thanks.

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  • TotalAspie

    It might violate the "half your age plus seven" rule of thumb, but who needs it! If the ages are both legal and the lust is there, then go for it!

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  • Troniik

    Good thing for you man jst hope that ur father dont beat the crap out of you for being more popular than him in his friend circle :P but seriously u can man theres nothing wrong if its only your instinct but i would worry for the future if you fall in love or anything for each other but thats another story i guess

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  • Sweetz

    Someone likes it loose ;)

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  • TyLee

    Lol that's a tough call

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  • rayst

    Well if she were attractive, sure, but since she's gross, i think uyou have your answer

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  • cheartsc

    That's normal, but kind of gross. Yuck, don't go for it! Find someone your age, please.

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  • (:sweet:)

    U like old wrinkly pussy? Ok well whatever u want. I dont think its very nornal but u should do what ur comfortable with

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  • chezycheze

    Um, I can't make decisions for you but if I could, I would definitely not hook up with her. A 48 year old women who wants to hook up with a 19 year old guy must be messed up. She could have stds. And, its very possible that you will regret your decision if you do. Also, would it really be that enjoyable? I probably would be weirded out the entire time. And, what would happen if people like your friends, parents, relatives, collegues found out. Would you feel comfortable embrassing that you are in some sorta messed up relationship with a 48 year old women.

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  • Ziggy22

    Imagine this shell be 72 in a nursing home while ur 44 fuc somebody ur own age creepy pervert

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    • Troniik

      U dont get it... its not for a longterm relationship baka

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