Is it normal to have a relationship like this with your best friend?

So I like my best guy friend. I've known him for about 5 years. But we've gotten close for the last year. We would be on the phone for literally HOURS everyday. And he would make fun of me in a silly way. He lives a block away from me and sometimes I would comeover his place and just talk. Typical thing right? The only different thing is that when we're alone, we would act like a couple. Like when we were outside, he would wrap his arms around me. But he's told me that he doesn't like me. He still shows signs that he does.

One time I came over his house and he wanted me to go upstairs with him to watch futurama. We ended up doing so in the dark cuddling on his bed. After that episode, he turned off the TV while still cuddling. I really wanted to kiss him, but his mom walked in and thought the worst so he walked me home.

We still talk a lot and he even says that he loves me before i have to leave. But he acts different when we're around others WHAT DO I DO?

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  • KeyboardSolo

    Duh...of course he likes you. Sounds like he's in love with you, in a more-than-friends kind of way. He's just afraid of admitting it for some reason. Possibly fear that you won't feel the same.

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  • gaf_92

    Or maybe he fears possibly ruining the relationship you have atm?!

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  • gypa

    He's probably gay. I don't know about you unless you like toching him to. then you gay to and i think both of you have throuble admiting that to each others.

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  • Orangepeelx

    Im in EXACTLY the same position! It sucks but it's the best... Weird x Kiss him! He kisses you back great he likes you, pulls away awkward for a few moments then everything's normal, x hope this helps Hun x good luck x

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  • ChelseaSailor

    Oh, what I wouldn't give for that.

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  • Askyouknow

    No this is not normal I definitely won't do this to my friend if we don't like each other...he likes you he's just being a wuss(no offense) when you are not alone either wait it up for him to man up or just ask him directly to quickly rap things up...just to remind you things don't go the way you want it to sometimes*

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  • xhandyandyx

    just kiss him!!!!!
    that will answer everything, he goes with it and your an item or he pushes you away, you have an awkward moment then your friends again.

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