Is it normal to have a relationship like this?

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I wasn't very keen on online relationships before but I started talking to this guy when I was 16 (I know I was young) but we've been talking for two years now. We talk every day and we facetime a lot but I've never met him, despite telling him I want to meet him.
He's told me he wants to but never makes the effort to arrange it. I know he's busy but seriousl?! 2 years?!
I don't know if it's worth putting all this effort in anymore when he isn't doing the same.
I've been thinking about ending it but I don't know how to.

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Based on 31 votes (6 yes)
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  • charli.m
    8 years ago

    Meeting online can develop into a real relationship, but you have to have the same goals. It took my fiance and I about two years to finally meet, but I'm also over 24hrs of air travel away...however, we both wanted to make it work.

    Have you seen him on webcam? Do you have any concrete proof he is who he says he is? That's important for your safety - physically, mentallu and emotionally.

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    • MCEminem
      8 years ago

      fantastic point

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Of course you two haven't met yet, you're both so young. He's probably to busy with real things like school, work, family, and his financial future to just drop everything and come see you. Why don't YOU go see HIM?

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    • flyingnostalgia
      8 years ago

      why dont YOU do that instead? ...just to check if he isnt some old fry

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        Ummmm what? I don't even know these people. Why would I do something like that for them?

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    • lightandlove
      8 years ago

      if he is young...;) she did not say he was the same age. he might be some mature dude that is up to no good...

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  • lightandlove
    8 years ago

    I agree. Just say you met someone. I hope he did not ask you to do stuff that is all over internet now...

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    It could be he's married or something and just having a laugh at your expense. Move on to a real face to face relationship and stay away from the losers online.

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  • Melora
    8 years ago

    If you manage to meet with him, be sure to meet in a public place just in case.

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  • MCEminem
    8 years ago

    meet him

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