Is it normal to have a relationship like this?

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Okay so I have been seeing this guy for 4 years now just casually for sex and a friend to hang out with and talk to. He's real sweet and always makes me laugh and smile. I have started to get feelings for him, and don't know how to tell him so I'm looking for advice. What I'm leaning toward right now is to tell him that I can't have sex with him anymore because I have feelings for him and ask him how he feels bout me. Any advice?

Tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way. 91
Tell him after you hookup. 7
Don't tell him because he will lie. 4
Don't tell him and break it off. 3
Don't tell him and continue to see him. 5
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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    Start casually moving you're stuff into his home. That will surely get the message across.

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    • Shackleford96
      11 years ago

      *your

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    "Originally I was just seeing him for sex"

    It's a hard thing to build in new directions once the structure's foundation is set.

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    • matthewkoehler
      7 years ago

      lol well said

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    ask him if he wants to have a baby with you.

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  • Maybeoneday
    11 years ago

    You and me both, girl! If he doesn't feel the same way, drop him.

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  • normalhuman
    11 years ago

    Just tell him. :)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Just go for it tell him how you feel.

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  • Unimportant
    11 years ago

    Guys, do you know where the post office is? I'm new in town.

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