Is it normal to have a rape fantasy/fetish?

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First of all, let me start by saying, that I know rape is wrong. I think that when it happens in real life, to real people, in real circumstances, that it is a terrible thing, and that anyone who actually rapes women in real life should be punished severely. However things are quite a bit different when people are acting, or pretending or role playing, so that you know that no one is really getting hurt, or that everyone within the situation is fine and okay with what is going on.

I'm 18, I'm a girl, and I'm bisexual. I have this sexual fantasy/fetish, whatever you want to call it. I really love the idea of being taken advantage of, or made to do things, or being used, you could call it a 'rape fantasy'. It just really turns me on. I guess my favourite fantasy would be to being forced into sex or, 'raped' by a teacher, and me being a student or an 'innocent school girl'.

Any thoughts or comments would be great, thanks!

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  • infinite
    12 years ago | pl

    I think it's normal. I was with a girl who liked it and we'd roleplay often. She liked it real rough, i'd slap her hard and she'd love it. I'd rape her and sometimes set her on fire with lighter fluid, finishing in her while she tried to put herself out. we both had a fire fetish and she liked to be beaten and raped, so we'd roleplay some pretty wild scenes.

    And yes, rape is very wrong when it's for real, so is assault, but when both parties understand it's just a game, a contact sport, then it can be a lot of fun, even if you do get hurt a bit. It's just like other 'sports' like mountian biking or boxing/wrestling, you'll probably get beat up a bit but it'll be worth it for the fun of doing it.

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  • melbyface
    12 years ago

    i have this too. don't worry. it's completely normal to like being dominated.

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  • MarieWantsIt
    12 years ago

    It's normal. Before I was married, when I was in my early 20s, I responded to ad ad from a 60 year old man. The role play was incredible. He was my teacher and chastised me for handing in poor work. He put me over his desk, pulled up my skirt, held me by the hair and 'raped' me in both holes. I get turned on by the memory to this day.

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  • GinnyWeasley
    12 years ago

    haha join the club honey you are not the only one

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  • NobodyKnows
    9 years ago

    Yes, "rape fantasy" is a real term. It's a commonly accepted fact that women often fantasize about being "dominated."

    But, as scientists, feminists, etc. will remind you, in a fantasy the girl is in control of the whole situation. So the term "rape fantasy" is actually kind of an oxymoron. "Fantasy about hard, dominating sex" would be a more apt name for it, IMO.

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