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It only happened to me once over summer, and for some reason I've been feeling guilty. I did not have sex with the handicap guy because I felt pity, he was very attractive, but without one leg:(
I dont think it matters - I know what your afraid of...... but they dont want to be treated differently, especially in that regard (I would imagine). Now, if he was cognitively delayed, then...... different storey I think.
as long as he was ok mentally and not with like a childs mind or somethings i dont see anything wrong with it, its only a leg lol
You think that him missing a leg would make it weird for you to have sex with him? Really?
There's nothing abnormal about it.
Thats plain rude! It does not matter If their missing a leg. HOw would you feel if some one said im not gonna marry or have sex with you cuz ur missing a leg or an arm!!!
I have a mental handicap im happy as can be. If hes happy then why feel pity...
I guess it is because you figured he must be missing you very much. Like: I should have never got him laid, now he must be feeling very sad looking back at what we did. Know what I mean? A person like that is not likely to get laid very often, so they miss you quite a lot more than everyone else, you kind of figured that, so, you feel guilty. Or you feel guilty for, taking advantage of a disabled guy, if you are the one having troubles getting laid. Either way,it would have been better if you said: this is going to be a one time thing. So he would not be thinking to get a stable fuck buddy. You might have been feeling sorry because you thought "if". If he wasn't disabled I'd.. And he'd... Blah blah. Mhm.
Don't feel guilty. Unless he's been trying to contact you or see you again and you've been avoiding him, but if he hasn't then he's probably very content with the one night stand.
I had sex with a girl that had no arms or legs. She still call me and wants more, I have been the only man to penetrate her, in her case she is sooooo cute but just missing her limbs from birth.
As long as it's not a handicap that would make him unable to consent, yes, it's perfectly normal.
If you can have a one night stand with a non-disabled person and not feel bad about it then I don't see why it would be different for someone whose disabled. There's nothing wrong with it.
I think I know what are you felling, even thought I don't know if you feel guilty because he was handicap or because you think he thinks you were having sex with him for pity.
...Wait, do you feel guilty because he was handicapped or do you feel guilty because he might have felt that you were taking pity on him by having sex with him?