Is it normal to have a low libido

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We are married with a 3 year old.. My libido is low and we may have sex once a month.. I don't enjoy it as my husband is overweight so when I get hot I ask him to stick his finger in and once done he comes in and we are done. He's tried all types of methods - lubricants, toys, sexy lingerie's etc - not helped. At night, he holds my boobs and sleeps hoping it will arouse me, I get worked up at that as I want to sleep or need my own space.. Day time he simply asks me to let him kiss my nipples.. I dont know whats wrong with him/me.. IIN? We recently fought over it. Anyone can give advice I am totally confused..

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    You sound like you're too exhausted to enjoy it. The combination of a 3 year old + shitty nights sleep is possibly lowering your libido. It might also be a natural lowering as you get older.

    Either way it's not something you can help too easily, there are medications and remedies that are supposed to heighten your libido but you'd have to see a doctor for that

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