Is it normal to have a lot of self doubt?

I've been struggling with self doubt a lot lately for some reason, even though things are going pretty well for me right now. For example I just met a guy while on vacation, we hooked up and he ended up asking me out but were long distance. I start doubting his feelings towards me basically saying to myself "what if he only wants sex?" "Maybe you're just his side piece" But then he drives 2 hours to come get me to stay with him for the weekend nd the doubt fades when I see how he is with me in person. Or I'll put it into my mind that people who are my friends don't actually like me or care about me. It's hard to explain.

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Based on 4 votes (3 yes)
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  • litelander8

    I would hope y'all are both of consenting age. Aside from that, go for it. Let close friends know where you are when you meet strangers or do double dates. But shoot for it!

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    Yes mate all of us struggle with self doubt at one point or another. It's normal as normal honestly.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

    Yeah its normal. If he's driving two hours to hangout and he's saying he has feelings for you he's probably legit.

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