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We ride the same bus and see each other almost every day, we've even started to smile at one another as she gets off the bus. Is this normal or am I just creepy? I'm still in high school and don't really have any experience.
| Go for it | 10 | |
| Creepy | 4 | |
| It's normal | 15 |
Update: Sat in front of her on Tuesday and introduced myself, it went alright so I sat next to her yesterday and things went even better. Feelin pretty good about the whole thing.
Yessssss bro! I'm rooting for you and am very glad you actually took my advice.
I would love if you kept us updated and also I can give you more advice because there is a lot more to it then introducing yourself, that's just the first step.
I know how you feel I sucked really bad with girls and had no idea what to do all through high school and it wasn't till maybe mid freshman year at college that I actually knew what to do in basic situations. I know the struggle but I've come out of it and now I'm a junior in college with an amazing gf and have had many other women I've been affiliated along the way.
Update 2 : she didn't even aknowledge me today and sat farther away from me than normal
Oooof. Give it a little time and maybe try again but you can't make her like you so there is a point where it's just creepy.
Sounds like she lost interest. You can either try again, or just let this go. Some women do find it creepy if you pursue after she's lost interest, so be careful.
1. Ask her name while simultaneously going for a firm hand shake.
2. Say "oh. Well its nice to meet you XYZ, I think your really (insert compliment) and was wondering if I could sit by you sometime.
3. Sit by her on the bus. Small talk, make her feel good about herself, make her laugh and drop subtle compliments.
4. Then after maybe 3-4 good bus rides together, ask her on a date outside of school and go from there.
Idk man but thanks anyways. Some folk on here think I'm misogynistic as hell so it was probably on of them. I see how you could get that impression of me based on other things, but this comment??? Seriosly??? If this is disrespectful to women then what isn't beside being gay?
Try this a few times again. If she keeps smiling to you, you should talk to her.
Well yeah, that's what a crush is. I haven't had a crush on someone I don't know anything about since I was a teenager though but it happened many times then.