Is it normal to have a girlfriend like this?

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ok here is my story. ive been dating this girl in my college for 4 months now. im not a really outgoing dude myself and i didnt have many girlfriends over all these years cuz i kinda consider myself one ugly motherfucker but the chick im telling you about is kinda hawt and honestly i still dont get it why she is dating me. but the problem is sumtin else. well you see she got some strong beleifs about chastity and says that shes a virgin and she is saving herself for the true love that she will mary in the future. she did come to my house on 3 diffrent occasions and we had some fun (no penetration...i ate some pussy she sucked cock...we kissed...end of disc one). but she really has a thing for phone sex and to be honest i think she wants to do it every damn night. one night she phoned me to have phonesex again and i finally got the balls to tell her that i really dont like doin phone sex anymore and i want her to come to my house more often. you know i just told her i like to have more of the real stuff. (same kind of fun like disc one). she got mad and we had a fight over the phone which came to no conclusion and she hung up. then texted me saying that she never wants to see me again!!! i phoned her and tried to talk some sense into her and telling her that she shouldnt do this and give it more thought. but she told me that she wanted to dump me for some time and she is only dumping me now so that i dont get too attached to her and get my heart broken later!!! and i finally gaveup and realised that this relationship is over, so i ok if this is what you want then ...have fun and goodluck. this happend 3 weeks ago. BUT...here comes the intresting part. she phoned me on my cell about 3 weeks ago and asked me if im alright and well. i asked why youre asking me this she said i had a dream that somthing happned to you and wanted to make sure that youre alright and she didnt tell me what wuz her dream about. anyhow we started seeing eachother again for 2 weeks now but something have changed. anytime that i ask her for a kiss, for phone sex, start any kind of dirty talk, ask here to come to my house, or try anything sexual... she makes an excuse and evades me. i dont know what to do and i know i love her. and i know she used to love me but i dont know if she does or doesnt love me anymore. is there anyway to save this relationship? or i will get dumped for a second time? or should dump her? or maybe after she brokeup with me she felt lonely and started seeing me again until she finds a new boyfriend? please someone help me.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    It sounds like she's not really mature enough for a physical relationship.

    She's still at a stage where she equates 'chaste' with 'I still have my hymen'. And she may technically be a virgin but... she is nowhere near chaste if she spends her nights engaging in every other form of sex except vaginal penetration.

    However it sounds like your original argument may have made her realize this... which could be why she's avoiding *all* physical contact.

    Now if she wants to remain chaste that's one thing. But if she can't even kiss you... that right there says she may still be emotionally too young for an adult relationship.

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