Is it normal to have a gf or wife turn you bi or gay?

I was married to a younger women, who after a while started to give certain hints to things she wanted to do. The first thing she did was to finger me while giving me head then it moved on to having me taste precum, then shooting cum in my mouth. It turned her on a lot, so the question came up about a threesum and she said she gets turned on watching two guys go at it. I had never done it and wasn't into the idea at first, but weeks later I said I would try....well she brought home a guy one night and after a few drinks we started to get into it. She was eager to see me do something and had the guy put his cock in front of my face for me to suck, so I just went for it! I couldn't believe how natural it came to me. I loved it a lot and sucked him off three times that night. He stayed the night and the two of us went down stairs and had sex again while my wife slept, this time he had anal intercourse with me which was painful at first but once I relaxed was great! Since then I have been with serveral guys and a few shemales and it has been fantastic. My wife turned me bi!

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  • BoredGuy

    I always thought i was kinky and pervy.

    But with you guys around i'm innocent like a dove.

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  • Hergayhubby

    Sounds kind of like my wife and I. We started swinging 20 years ago and over about two years time we found out we are both submissive bisexuals, she much prefers to have two women at once one kneeling over face while being fisted by the other. I enjoy being fucked by hung men while my limp clitty oozes out my sissy juice. We live our day to day life as husband and wife but we both have same sex fuck buddies. I consider myself fully gay, my wife says she is just bisexual since she would still let a guy fuck her. We are happy with our life now.

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  • JazzyJim

    I'm in a similar situation, where my wife got me to have sex with other guys. Are you meeting guys on your own or with her? Does she have any relationships outside your marriage now?

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  • I_am_not_normal

    I think some are born that way, and for others, experiences (Like this) can turn you gay/bi.. Since you now realize you like it

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    • lvcumluver

      I think that there is a switch in everyone when it comes to sexual likes, however the part about genetics I think falls for those that are only attracted to one sex or the other not both. I purely enjoy the sex, and love cock! I will not see myself in love or attracted to a guy unless he is naked and hard or want to have sex with me.

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  • Subhubby

    I have been married for 5 years and my wife and I were I a cuckold relationship for 2 years before the inevitable step involving me servicing her bull with oral sex and full anal sex.after I got used to it I started to enjoy it.my wife encouraged me to experiment with other men and I kind of have a boyfriend at her insistence.like jazzy Jeff here Im very submissive and our marriage is based on the sub Dom dynamic.

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  • Jazzyjeff

    My wife changed me a lot.she hates facial hair so she asked me to shave off my beard and get laser hair removal which I did.she smokes so she eventually got me to start smoking and changed my dress sense so I look more androgynous.all this led up to getting me to be more adventurous with sex.she brought a guy home with her to have sex with while I watched and she us to kiss.she said that I should pretend I'm in love with him when I kiss him so it was very passionate and tender.after a few times of just watching and kissing she asked me to give him a blowjob whichi did.then I had full sex with him.im very submissive so I pretty much will do anything she asks of me because i love her.im happy with my life.i love the way I look.i love smoking and I love pleasing her when I make love to men

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  • bklyn_40

    I don't think it's possible to be turned bi or gay. either you are or aren't. For someone to "turn you", there had to be something inside to begin with.
    Now, if you only do it while in a MFM, I would say you're hetero-flexible, or bi-playful. But to do it because you like it, it had to be a part of you.
    But to everyone who sees this, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH WHATEVER OR HOWEVER you define yourself. If it pleases you and no one is getting hurt, ENJOY!!!

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  • miketheb

    Is it normal? Well it's perfectly acceptable let's establish that firstly.....my wife expressed her desire to see me being used by other men within weeks of us dating, explaining it was a prerequisite of the relationship continuing. She now has her lovers, and controls my sex life, basically "she does what she wants", and "I have to do what she wants" as well. Simply knowing it pleases and amuses her is my reward, and being "gay" at her request is a pleasure and privilege and treasure in our relationship.

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  • Octopusmaster21

    Yeah i have had a few similar after my gf had her cheated and had her baby. she continued to screwing around just to get me jealous. Eventually it evolved into her and a hookup going at it in front of me. When i suggested he not cum in her her hookup replied "where else would i cum?" my gf joked he could fuck me. Since i love her and was tired of her getting fucked and trying to kiss me with another guy's cum all over her lips I went for it and let him fuck my ass. Not going to lie that is a sexual act I shouldve prepared for.

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  • LF4sDLX

    Normal to try new things in your sex life with your spouse. But don't turn completely gay. Your wife is still your wife! I think you should have more threesomes with her & another guy. Plus have sex with her alone more. I'm trying to get my wife to try out other women & men with me NEVER behind our each others back.

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  • lvcumluver

    Cool that I'm not the only one. I have met guys on my own now at the start we did this with a few guys she knew, but as I got more and more interested in sex with men I began to seek out other guys I could be more sexual with. She has also done the same thing and I am happy she does, but she does it for the sex, which I give her less and less now. I asked her if she is upset with the fact I have alomost become gay sexually and she says no its turns her on she made me like that. Deep down I know she wants to watch guys fuck, and at the same time she wants to have me watch her get fucked by other guys, and then she just want to have sex with other guys alone. Cock to me is amazing and I love her for turning me on to it. If you would have told me a while ago I would be sucking dick and being topped by men I would have been pissed and told you were full of shit, no look at me!

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    • Easyguy

      I am also in a very similar situation where my wife gradually encouraged me to try sex with men. It took her almost a year before I actually tried it for the first time, and I was extremely hesitant in my first few experiences. The thing that pulled me through my hesitation was seeing how utterly turned on she was at each step of my encounter with a guy. It really made me want to go through with it to please her and make her hot, which made me feel hot about it. We love and support each other in our professional lives, but our relationship is almost purely platonic now, which we are both comfortable with. The last time I gave her sex was about one year ago now, and I meet men alone for sex regularly at her encouragement. She has helped set up a number of all male threesomes for me and try to help me indulge my homosexual side to see if it becomes permanent. She has said it would turn her on more than anything if I became 100% gay but still remain her husband (we are very close as people), and I am willing to try!

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    • JazzyJim

      Wow! Absolutely where I am. It started with me watching her have sex with other guys and eating her after they had cum inside her, then me trying sex with other guys with her, and then alone. Now I have sex pretty much exclusively with guys. She had sex with other men as I watched and joined in, then met them on her own, and now she has one guy she meets regularly for unprotected sex.

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  • 8Serene8

    I agree with first comment. You are born bi/gay. You don't just turn that way b

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  • catocato52028

    WTF..... LOL thats funny LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • randomjelly

    No one can turn you bi or gay but whatever helps you sleep at night...

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