Is it normal to have a "friend" like this?

I have a "friend" who is an asswhole to me but when it comes to needing help, she's there to help. I don't know if thats what you call a "true friend." Another factor to consider is how she is just a good person who likes to do good things so I feel like when I need help and she helps she is only doing it to be a good person not because she actually wants to help me. When it comes to just hanging out or whatever she is an asswhole. Always poiinting out the negative things about me, never has a real conversation because she is always joking around, makes these faces at me, etc. So at the end of the day, I don't consider her as a "true friend" even if she helps me when I need it. I think that's just a part of her nature. And the worse thing is she is a good person but not to me in general so if I complain about her to others, they won't believe me because she doesn't treat them like she treats me.

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Based on 24 votes (14 yes)
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  • LittleMissy

    A whole ass?

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  • college

    Overall, she seems like a decent human being. However, if she makes you feel inadequate by putting you down, then your friendship with her is unhealthy for you. If this is a friendship you want to pursue, maybe discuss this with her, otherwise I'd suggest ending it.

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    • Yeah we are supposed to move in together in the fall but I really don't want to because I believe if there is a potential friendship there then the best thing to do is to have distance.

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  • Cupcake14

    I have a guy friend like that, trust me, it's normal(:

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  • Omg really people, over the misspelling of "asshole." There are a lot of people who spell it "asswhole" as just a way of slang. Okay sorry. "She treats me like an ASSHOLE." Better? Jeeeze.

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    • robbieforgotpw

      It's a tough crowd OP.
      *power turds himself

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  • disthing

    If she treats you like a whole ass, treat her like a whole ass. Or don't be her friend.

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    • At least you kinda sorta gave me a response. Thanks.

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