Is it normal to have a dirty side to your personality?

U sound alot like myself. Everyone thinks I'm a quiet shy girl but I'm not I hav some krazzi fantasy's that I can't wait to try out with my future husband :) but ya u are normal

Well everyone has a dirty side to their personality.

i think that some people think i would even think about sex and others might.... hmmm

It's so incredibly normal lol. In fact i used to constantly scold myself for being so inappropriate. I still have a bit of a problem with sexual guilt, to be honest. Thing is, no one should feel guilty about having a sexual side. If we as humans weren't supposed to like sex, or if it was purely for procreation, it wouldn't be such a pleasant thing to experience/think about in the first place. Be as naughty as you like (mind you, im not implying you go screw everthing that breathes XD) the guilt will start to wear off once you grasp how seriously normal it is.

yes. very. Im shy on the outside but ver very pervy on the inside.

well you know thats just who you are and its perfectly fine

wow!
sounds exactly like me!
i should have asked this! LOL but i'm embarrassed, good thing i'm not alone! haha

i was always called a librarian throughout highschool by all my friends. basically i looked like a sweet innocent girl that liked to have fun but intelligent at the same time ya know. the reason for librarian is cuz they have that freaky side to them that no one knows about. my friends never knew for a fact but you they were right! you have no idea how many ppl are really like this. i promise. you are extremely normal.

i feel the same way! at school everyone thinks im this sweet innocent little girl that would never do anything nasty or bad! they even freak out when i say a bad word!!! but i masterbate and i watch porn and i have so many fantasies of sex and stuff like that. i also have 2 different types of friends some r bad and they always talk about boys and sex, the other is the good girls that like to have fun and do what they want. but i think we r normal!!

Nothing is dirty. Other peoples opinions about ones business is dirty. To be a fully actualized human being one has to explore every nook and cranny of themselves. There is no real normal in society. Don't be fooled. EVERYONE is different. Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.

Nothing wrong in my book. Go for it!

Totally normal and worth the exploration.

sounds quite like myself

My wife had a hard time when she found out about my 'bi-side'. I don't mention it or devulge in it but sometimes I'd like to. Just phyically, never emotionally. So I guess I'm a freak. Just remember-you're only as sick as your secrets!

Sexuality can be spiritual also.

Everyone has a frisky side

Absolutely normal! I'm such a shy girl, which is probably why my bf freaked out when he realised I wasn't so shy in bed. Don't beat yourself up about it.

yepyep saaame here

quiet and crazy in bed

as long as ur female i could help u act out ur fantisies. i would be totally normal after we did it enough. u should feel bad for not following through on what u want. dont deprieve ur self of ur desires.

We all have thoughts and feelings that can surprise or even shame us. The great thing about thoughts is that they don't matter all that much, what you actually do will always be more important than what you are thinking of. I feel much the same as what you described, I have a vivid fantasy life especially concerning sex, but I'm a preschool teacher so I don't think anyone would expect that of me. Sometimes people get this idea that you need to divulge all of your secrets (to your significant other or a friend) to be mentally healthy but the truth is secrets are okay. We all think and do things we wouldn't want ANYONE else to know and that is all right. I will leave you with a thought that has helped me: feelings are not right or wrong... they just are.

Ha ha. I'm quiet but I can be crazy

It's Normal. Plus, us quiet ones are always the freaks in bed :-p

Nobody is perfect, physically or morally. It's in our sinning nature to think about these kinds of things, we just have to try to limit ourselves with self-control.

Same here. You're not alone.

SAAMEE

Normal, really!

I'm the same way. It's normal.

OMG when I read this it sounded like something I would have asked. I think it is perfectly normal.

quiet ones arealways the worst;-)