Is it normal to have a crush while in a relationship?

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So I have a boyfriend, and I don't want to break up with him at all, even though I know I don't want to be with him forever. This weekend I went on the church retreat and I kind of found myself liking another guy... I'm on my period so maybe I'm just hormonally imbalanced at the moment, but is this normal? Like I said, it's not like I'm not happy with my boyfriend but I'm just attracted to this other guy a lot. Should I wait it out or stop myself from liking the other guy? Please help, thank you!

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    I think that people in happy relationships do get crushes on people outside the relationship once in a while. I think that is normal and ok just as long as you don't act on them.

    On the other hand, I don't understand your logic on loving your boyfriend but not wanting to be with him in the future.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Poor guy. Why would you be with him if you don't see a future with him? Tacky.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Do not be a hoe.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Yes it happens, you can even love someone and still have feelings for another! But how you act on these feelings is what determines what kind of person you are! Good luck with your choices.

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  • steph678
    12 years ago

    Be honest with him. There is no reason to commit yourself to someone if you don't see a future with them.

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