Is it normal to have a crush while in a relationship?

I'm very happy with my boyfriend and can't ever imagine being with anyone else. But I can't help myself from having small crushes on other guys here and there. Nothing I would ever want to act on, but something I just think about occasionally. Is that normal?

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Based on 70 votes (63 yes)
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  • AutumnEquinox

    I would say it's completely normal. I haven't had a crush on any guy since I've been with my current boyfriend, but I have caught myself saying stuff inside my head like "Wow that was hot" when one of his guy friends does something cool around me. I've also noticed myself start to blush when same friend says something that could be turned perverted towards. Well I wouldn't call this a crush, but I guess some would.

    Anyway, I think it sounds completely normal. As long as they keep going as fast as they're coming lol

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  • CreativeThinker

    thats called sluty behaviour....totaly normal and common

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  • P.J.Fry

    Yeah...My girlfriend used to tell me about her crushes and i thought it was Cute!

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  • peterr

    Fuck 'em all is what I recommend.

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  • Kotahater

    I think its normal to crush on other ppl as long as u dnt pursue it.

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  • It's not really normal no.

    When you're in a very long committed relationship over many years yes it's normal to have some feelings or attraction for other people every now and then but few of them.

    You sound like there's lots of other guys you want to fuck but you feel guilty if you ever did it and that's not normal.

    Too many guys you're crushing on. I'd say you're not really interested in your boyfriend much and it's time for you to move on.

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  • Mersaphe

    The fact that you're in happy relationship might tempt you to fancy other guys. Just the fact that you can't be with them right now can be a little bit of a turn on, even if it might seem odd.

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