Is it normal to have a crush on my friend boyfriend?

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So a group of friends and I have been hanging out a lot and I get nervous and awkward around him for some reason especially when he's with my friend. The other day he ask his gf if they were going to invite me to go with them somewhere and she said yes. And yesterday the same thing happen too. I don't know why but I'm so awkward around them, good thing I'm not alone with them. And yesterday he was joking around with me and kissing his gf in front of all of us. And right before we were leaving everyone hug everyone and he ask his gf if he could hug me and she said, her yes... So we hug but I didn't hug him completely just side hug while talking to the others. What does all this mean? Do you think he can also like me?

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    7 years ago

    Yes he can have a crush on you. He obviously loves his girlfriend or he wouldn't ask her permission. Respect their relationship and find your own with someone else.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Normal to have the crush not a good idea to pursue it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Stop acting like an idiot and respect your friend! Your "crush" obviously respects her so follow his lead, be a good friend and respect your friend! Leave him alone, he's her boyfriend not yours. Don't be a selfish home wrecker! Be a good and decent friend and try to think of him more like a brother.

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  • Digsbie
    7 years ago

    you never kn who you are going to crush on til it happens. life and love is complicated, enjoy the ride!

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    He had to ask permission just to give you a friendly platonic hug? Sounds like your crush and his gf have some serious trust issues.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Yeah it does sound like that to me too. I mean why ask for permission that's why it was so awkward.

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    • Shackleford96
      7 years ago

      They sound pretty young though, I wonder if that has something to do with it.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        7 years ago

        They are Both in their late 20's.

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        • Shackleford96
          7 years ago

          Well, based on this new information, I agree with tempest-au then.

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