Is it normal to have a crush on my co worker?? how do i aproach him!?

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Soo since the first day I seen this Guy I knew I had the hots for him!! I basically trained him when he started working at my job, later on when we started talking I grew a crush on him I loved his personality! He's one of those people I can have a conversation without even thinking of what to say next! We exchanged numbers and have hung out outside of work a few times and we text here and there! But ahhhh I want to drop hints to him so he can know how I feel! Buttttt if he rejects me Work might be a little awkward! !!?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Here are my suggestions...

    1) Review your company's rules about dating first. Find out if dating him is going to cause trouble at work. This is extremely important if you're in a position of power over him, say if you make the work schedule etc.

    Because .. no i don't think your job should tell you who you can and cannot date (unless you're military cos the UCMJ says they have the right). However you can get yourself in trouble if say... you get accused of preferential treatment. Say if you always give your man better hours etc.

    So ... cover your ass first.

    2) Why not be friends first? If it's meant to be then... well it's not going to ruin anything if you find out you get along as friends too.

    Try simple things first, hanging out at a food place after work. simple stuff that helps you get to know him to see if you even like each other first.

    in my opinion too many people jump right into romance and use the dating /romance scene to see if they get along with someone. in my opinion the dating / romance works better when you already like each other first

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  • Sinsector
    12 years ago

    Be touchy? While you laugh and smile, touch and push him on the shoulder? Check his reaction while you're doing that. If he seems really comfortable with it still and keeps on making you laugh and smile, it means he wants you to touch him more. Then that only means he probably does like you too! Keep going on dates and see where it takes you. I'm a guy by the way. If that helps.

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    • Pinecone
      12 years ago

      I agree... most guys are constantly watching to see if there's something between them and pretty much every girl they associate with. Perhaps ask him if he thinks you're attractive. He will say something like "you're attractive just not my type" if he's not into you in that way. If he says anything else, he likes you. But chances are high that he is if you've associated with him outside work already! Then just reply back saying something that lets him know you have the hots for him.. Try something like "I want someone as hot and sweet as you" and then even potentially suggest something fun/romatic to do together sometime... (can work as a response no matter how he responds). If he isn't overly shy he'll take you for a date.

      Or you could simply tell him he's hot and offer him a bj! lol, he'll know you like him and likely he'll start obsessing about you!

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      • xovo<3
        12 years ago

        Lol this literally just made my night! Thanks:)

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        • Pinecone
          12 years ago

          Sweet!
          BTW- If you go for the bj option, tell him he needs to buy you dinner first and make sure you get a good kiss in before you start! lol. Keep us posted!

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    Try flirting with him.

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  • xovo<3
    12 years ago

    Lol thanks soo much! Did I mentioned I'm shy!? Haha we'll see how this goes …

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