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I'm a STRAIGHT guy, is it normal that i think other guys are really hot and get crushes on guys, does it make me gay or bi?
You're probably heterosexual, but biromantic. It means that though you only get turned on sexually by women's bodies, you could also fall for the personality of a man, and maybe find him quite aesthetically appealing.
If you can be straight, like seriously straight and still find people of your own sex attractive, you aren't bisexual, gay or confused. Maybe metrosexual, but lets face it, "metrosexualism" is no longer popular.
Handsome is handsome. Pretty is pretty. Being beautiful is unisex - just like being sexy.
Attraction is attraction. Admiring another human being, animal, etc is nature.
He says he "crushes" on "really hot" guys. I'm straight and while I don't have a problem with say understanding why certain guys get laid a lot I don't have a crush on them.
That's homosexual or bisexual if you still find women attractive.
I get what you're saying and you are absolutely right. It is either homosexualism or bisexualism.
I wanted to believe he was exaggerating the word "crush". Personally i can crush on male or female but thats only because i can go from "crushed" to infatuated, to obsessed.
Clearly, im mentally unhealthy but at least i know when and where to draw the line. Can we please legalize marijuana?
Since I do smoke occasionally I am for legalizing it. I have to say that I do understand the government position of not always wanting to. I know plenty of people now that literally smoke all day long and do nothing, no job, nothing. I know people are gonna be people and the ones who want to smoke are gonna do what they want to do, but it's a real tricky situation because if it's legal how many more people are going to become like that?
No it is a real tricky situation. I only wish marijuana (at least) can be put in the same category as alcohol where it can be consumed when and where it is appropriate. I feel like, as long as its offered to be consumed in a "civil" manner (courteous and polite) theres no harm, no foul.
If the smell bothers a certain person (or group of persons for that matter) tobacco should be just as "illegal". Then again, theres so much more worse shit going on then people just smoking pot.
If you were gay, you would have tried "gay sex". Same goes if you were bi (you would have had sex with both male and female species within your own race). I dont know or care how you define "a crush".
Whatever makes you horny, makes you orgasm, gets you aroused - defines your "sexual" preference. Otherwise, you just either really admire someone for who they are and how they project themselves in "public" (or in "private), and you cant label that.
For example ive been hit on by more "homosexuals" than "heterosexuals" . It was never a surprise to me, but a surprise to them when they realized i was not gay or bi. Sadly, its only homo/bi sexuals that ever point their attention towards me and its certainly the highest compliment i ever care to receive.
Bi probably if you are also attracted to women. it's all about attraction. you can pound a guy millions of times but it won't make you gay if you are not attracted to him, it will only mean that you like anal. i also find the same sex attractive and sometimes i have crush on them and sometimes i envy them. and so i've concluded that i'm also bi. there's nothing wrong with either of them btw. have fun :)