Is it normal to have a crush on a fictional character

I'm sorry if a million people have already made posts very similar to this but I legitimately have a crush on Professor Snape from Harry Potter. I cannot get him out of my mind and get sad when I remember that he doesn't even exist. Then I get even more sad because I feel dumb for feeling depraved from a character that I've never met. I just feel weird for liking him so much.

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  • Batman950

    A crush almost by definition is fictitious. I remember having a crush on a girl in college and then I found out she was as faulty as everybody else. She might as well have been a fictional character because my impression was idealistic. And a crush is looking at an idealistic view at someone, the only difference is your idealistic view won't be destroyed by reality.

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  • Walk

    I had a crush on Remus Lupin

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  • Cliche1234

    Alan Rickman himself was already originally an attractive man even without that dickish magical professor wig.

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    • Wescobathrooms

      Right!? I curse that man for being so freaking handsome. Rest his soul.

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  • my_life_my_way

    It’s normal to be attracted to fictional characters but weird to be that obsessed. Just focus on finding friends/a partner in the real world

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    • Wescobathrooms

      Thank god, I felt like a weirdo for liking him. The obsessive part might just be from rewatching Harry Potter pretty recently. I have had a relationship and a few crushes on real people at school but I just haven't really wanted to date any of them long term so we just stay friends/strangers lol. Thank you for commenting :)

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  • noid

    There was once a user on IIN that thought Snape was her dad in another life.

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  • olderdude-xx

    Yes. Totally normal

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  • Mehereok1

    Most people do at some point. I used to watch Xena: Warrior Princess, and had a huge crush on the hot, gorgeous blonde villian, Callisto (Hudson Leick). Even watching a quick scene with her got me going. So beautiful, such a hot body, and the costumes they put her in always showed off her tight, tanned tummy and bulging cleavage. I had it bad for her.

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  • Mammal-lover

    I mean I'd totally make a suggestive comment to roran strong hamer but he sounds adorable with katrina so I'll let him go.

    I admit jinx in league of legends does tickle my funny bone as well. Talk about confused conflicting feelings

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Do you ship “Snarry” by any chance?

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    • Wescobathrooms

      No I don't, is that a popular ship in the Harry Potter fandom? Even if it is I'd much rather have Snape be with me lol

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      • SkullsNRoses

        Perhaps SnapeXReader then? If that even exists.

        Snarry is disturbingly popular considering how distasteful the age difference is. In more innocent days I mistook it for a joke.

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  • Kermitt

    It's understandable to be attracted to looks and personality, whether they're fictional or real

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    • Wescobathrooms

      Thank you for your comment, I feel a lot better knowing that it's alright

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      • Kermitt

        I'm glad you feel better about it. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Thank you for your comment

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    Everyone knows that i popped my first boner as a kid to harley quinn

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    • Wescobathrooms

      I'm not even attracted to girls and I understand 100%. Harley Quinn is hot as hell!! I love her tight clothes and cute hat she wears in the comics :)

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

        Yeah and the way she kills ppl

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