Is it normal to have a crush for so long?

Okay, so I've had a crush on this one guy for 4 and a half years now! ALL of my friends know about it, which is like, practically everyone.. Anyway, is this normal?!

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86% Normal
Based on 44 votes (38 yes)
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  • Kutieadb

    Haha, same amount of time here for me; I would hope to believe this is normal. I feel for you, and I hope that you find happiness.

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  • squirrelgirl

    I've been in love with the same woman for 10 years. She never reciprocated my feelings, and we haven't been on speaking terms for 8 years, but I can't seem to let go of the belief that we should have ended up together.

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  • Awwwhman

    Yea love is bullshit

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  • Thatguy777

    Any crush that lasts longer than four months is considered love. So you're in love actually.

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  • Navaura

    Well, I think it's normal. I know how you feel squirrelgirl. I had a crush on the same guy for three and a half years and then fell in love for the first time at seventeen and it took me six years to let go of him. We were only together for a year and I had a lot of what if's. I used to dream that he and I would marry, but I doubt that will happen.

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