Is it normal to have a boyfriend but have feelings for someone else

Ok well I have a boyfriend who means everything to me and I would do anything for him, but I have those same feelings for my bestfriend who is a girl.
Is it normal to want to be with her aswell

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Based on 272 votes (177 yes)
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  • Ryuk5127

    YES!!!! I'm bi (and proud) and I've had this experience happen to me

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  • counsellor

    if you are having a BF, and looking for a serious relationship then its not normal for him to have feelings for someone else

    this shows either your love is not strong or both of them are not looking for serious relation ship. its better sit and discuss with him what is lacking in relation for him to have feelings for someone else

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    • Ryuk5127

      um, read the question again. I think you misunderstood what is being asked.

      Or I misunderstood. Either one.

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  • KyleRoccz

    Who gives a shit?

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  • jacksparrow

    The other person that i have feelings for is a chick, I'm a chick. I don't know what to do about it...

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  • patrickbatemenlover

    Normal, but try and figure out what you want because having strong feelings for someone else might be a sign that your boyfriend isn't right for you in the long run. I was with someone for 4 years and continuously had feelings for various other people on and off but it took me to long to realize these feelings were a sign. I thought I loved my man and cried over him and our arguments but when we split I realized he was not the one for me and I met someone else and now I wondered why I stayed with my other boyfriend having feelings for others because I love my boyfriend so much there is no room for feelings for others.

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  • jacksparrow

    Yes I think it is the same kind of
    Love. I have kissed both of them and I get that same amazing feeling when I do, they both give me butterflies :)

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  • colourmoon

    are you sure that you feel love for your best friend? i also could not decide between my best and my boyfriend, but there are difeerent feelings.

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  • lilbrownmaria

    so normal. your only human.

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