Is it normal to have a body that many people desire but not like it?

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I have a body that many people would consider desirable (especially men). Big boobs, nice big plump bottom, curvy, small waist ect... You get it. But I prefer smaller boobs, smaller butt and to be petite. I hate the feedback I get with having this body. Older men think I'm older than what I actually am. It just makes me uncomfortable. People automatically think I'm promiscuous. I also have back dimples and one girl thought I got them by having sex -_- (I'm a virgin). I'm very shy and this group of guys thought it was weird that I looked the way that I look and I didn't act like the girls that I reminded them of. I don't think my body is hideous at all, I just prefer to have less.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    You're fine, those people are dirt bags.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Nothing to worry about. You are projecting more sexuality than you have in the past. This is good. Now, all you need to do is project power to make the dirt bags behave themselves.

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  • queen-B
    8 years ago

    Blonds want to be brunettes, girls with big boobs want small ones and vice versa. Girl, those people are just stupid, ignore them. I know it'll be hard but keep your eyes out for those who except you for your personality and YOU! Love your body and tell those who think you're a whore, to back off.
    xoxo Queen B

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  • smallboobies:(
    8 years ago

    I'd kill to have that body type. I have a flat chest, flat ass, people think I'm 17 when I'm 26, :/ nothing I can do about cause I can't afford plastic surgery.

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  • mvmlevina
    8 years ago

    It is normal to feel this way... You remind me of my self actually. I have the some body type and in the beginning the attention was very painful to me and I felt in many ways "trapped" in my appearance.....

    Know that it is not your fault AT ALL that those disgusting people treat you this way and think that you are promiscuous.... I also think that the way people look at you is especially confusing and hard because you are a virgin.

    Delete all those people that treat you weirdly.... Always remember who you truly are! You can always be who you truly are even if some stupid people imagine you a deferent way... you shouldn't waste even one thought on those people!

    Just remember who you truly are and embrace your appearance it is a part of you now.... and it is going to take some time to get use to the way you look and to the new way that people see you. But this is also a part of... you are going to have to deal with attention the rest of your life. Be strong, be yourself and surround yourself with people whom you respect and people who see the real you. :)

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  • jethro
    8 years ago

    Give it some time. All of those features will certainly change. Trust me.

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  • Thexoutcast
    8 years ago

    Sounds like you have the body I desire and I have the body you desire. People always assume I'm younger than what I actually am. I wish we could switch.

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    • BluntnBored
      8 years ago

      Lol.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Find what you like about your own body and focus on bringing those features out.

    Everyone wants different body features. I wish I was taller and broader but I'm not. I've got a nice face though. So I'll work with that.

    Find your own definition of beauty.

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  • reminiscent
    8 years ago

    most people wish something about themselves was different. the grass is greener on the other side.

    and its sad you get stereotyped like that :(.
    bit stereotyping happens no matter what body type you have.

    try to think more positively and learn to find things you like. like maybe get a shirt that you think your boobs look good in :)

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    • BluntnBored
      8 years ago

      Thanks.

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  • NeofelisNebulosa
    8 years ago

    Two questions. 1. How old are you? 2. What are back dimples?

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    • BluntnBored
      8 years ago

      I'm 18 and back dimples are just 2 dimples on your lower back. Google it.

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      • NeofelisNebulosa
        8 years ago

        I just did. How would those be related to having sex? It sounds like they are normal human anatomy. Anyway, it sounds like your body is nice. Why would you want to change it?

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        • BluntnBored
          8 years ago

          Exactly, I have no idea how that's related to sex. Lol, to answer your question, I explained why in the description above. The attention I get makes me uncomfortable and I feel like bc of my body, I give off the wrong impression. Besides, I think a more petite body would be easier to manage.

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  • toofgod
    8 years ago

    I think society has hammered into your head that it's ok to be FAT but deep down you know you are at least a little bit "chubby" and can do much better by WORKING OUT and trust me when I say LOSING WEIGHT will make your tits shrink anyway angle you look at it from.

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    • Cuntsiclestick
      8 years ago

      Curvy and fat are NOT the same thing dude.

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      • toofgod
        8 years ago

        Listen White Knight....Curvy & fat aren't the same as CHUBBY... "Take a look, it's in a book, its Reading Rainbooooow" ..... Iiiiiii cannnn goooo any where...... XD

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    • BluntnBored
      8 years ago

      Actually I do not think it's ok at all to be fat but I agree with the rest of what you said.

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      • toofgod
        8 years ago

        I love you.

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        • BluntnBored
          8 years ago

          Love? Me? *hysterically laughs*

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          • toofgod
            8 years ago

            Why so mean? everyone hates me -3 and you kick me while I'm down ??? Are you an "empowered woman" ? Why so hateful? Why so angry?

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            • BluntnBored
              8 years ago

              LOL! I was actually being sarcastic. I was laughing at the thought of someone loving me. Trust me, you don't love me, lol.

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