Is it normal to have a "big butt" as a guy bigger than most girls'?

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In college, a lot of girls have made rude remarks about my butt, and a few have even touched/spanked it without permission.

A lot of the remarks were also "racial" in nature, I'm dark skinned, and a lot of the offenders have said things like "all black people have huge butts", or "get your big black *** over here" despite the fact that I'm not even Black. And yes, all of the offending girls were White, except for one Asian.

Anyway, I never even KNEW that I had a "big butt" until I started having it pointed out for me. It feels like it's a very feminine trait to have, since girls tend to want one. My sister has a really big butt for what it's worth.

Basically, I have three questions:

1) Do you assume that a guy is gay if he has a big bottom?

2) Do you think all, or most, dark skinned people have big butts?

3) Is it a turn off when a guy has a big butt?

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Based on 104 votes (70 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I feel for you. It really sucks to be self conscious about a particular trait that you may have and then have everyone point it out and make fun of you for it all the time. There isn't much you can do about your butt. I guess if you had some extra weight on your frame you could try to lose it and lift weights to even out you body composition a bit. I think that the main problem here is you are around a group of immature people. I think as you get older and transition to different phases and environments in your life you will run into more mature folks who know it is rude to bring up things such as this. I would not worry too much.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    They are nice on women

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  • Wuggums47
    10 years ago

    1) Do you assume that a guy is gay if he has a big bottom?

    No, I think a guy is gay when he only has/wants sex with men. physical traits have nothing to do with it.

    2) Do you think all, or most, dark skinned people have big butts?

    I've only noticed a trend on females, but it doesn't include all of them.

    3) Is it a turn off when a guy has a big butt?

    Who gives a shit. As long as I like them it doesn't matter.

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    1. No! 2. No! 2 No!

    There is nothing abnormal about a big booty. In fact, it's a BLESSING. For real! Male or female, it's still hot. Tell them haters to f~ off and go find a rad girl who likes that ass.

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    1) Yeah, because all gay people have big butts. All.
    ... What?

    2) No.

    3) Not necessarily, depends.

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    • peterr
      10 years ago

      Would you rather fuck a guy with a big butt, normal or small one?

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      • robbieforgotpw
        10 years ago

        Fudgepackers!

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      • GreyWulfen
        10 years ago

        I don't care much about the butt size. It's more about the person, not the butt. :P

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        • peterr
          10 years ago

          Nicely said. My hats off to you.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Sorry you're having a problem with sexual harassment, because that's what it is. This crap happens to women all the time. If it's women from your place of work you can talk your supervisor and or human relations. Regardless of the size of your behind or the color of your skin you shouldn't have to put up with this degradation!

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    1) No
    2) No
    3) A real big butt is more attractive on females.

    I'm dark-skinned and I have no butt at all. Nothing. I'm doing some workouts to try to remedy to that.

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    • peterr
      10 years ago

      You are beautiful inside and out. Your butt may get bigger but if it doesn't I will think none the less for it. You are a sweetheart Kelili and don't forget it!

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      • kelili
        10 years ago

        You're too nice with me. I'm not that good you know. You'll be quite deceived if you knew me better. Thanks though. :)

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