Is it normal to have a bad belief system that never changes

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Long story short, through experiances and people and other things, it came down to my mind believing that
A) im not worth it
b) if theres no purpose in something then theres no point in me being around
C) Reality is overrated
D) go with the flow, dont bother doing anything until the oppurtunity shows itself

And other things that I could go on.

Im pretty sure this is normal, but i just wanted to know if anyone else has a crappy belief system so bad or negative, theres no way to shake if off.

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  • mexiguytex87
    12 years ago

    Never give up, always see the bright side. Yeah you could say its pointless but if you make it fun and ffind some hobbies that benifit yourself and others then you start to feel like you made a difference in some one elses pointless life, then it doesn't become pointless, we should all work together and make life great. Its sometimes hard but there's no point in being sad depressed angry, it just makes life harder to live so try and stay positve

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you suffer from apathy and low self-esteem. I think you need to find something you can genuinely be passion about and pursue. Why wouldn't you be worth it? What is 'it' anyway? Happiness? Something material? Wealth? Love?

    I fluctuate between feelings of strong self-worth, creativity and determination and exactly the mind-set you've described. I aspire to always have the first.

    Out of curiosity, what is your current situation?

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    • Downcast7
      12 years ago

      My current sitsuation.
      Lets see. Maybe not all current buttt.....

      Im 19, and only worked 2 part time seasonal jobs. Their had been things in the past that brought up a sense of rejection. Family things. I live with half siblings who are now my guardians old enough to be my parents. I have anxiety issues, and i tend to to be really sensitive. I see a social worker about this but its been years and its not sinking in. Friends tell me things out of support but aa much as the attentions comes in it doesnt sink in that i have people who care.  I dont look for a job as effortly as im told to do because i see nothing of it. I love music making songs but i dont know if its what i want to do. My creativity is bleak nowadays. So its at a point that id rather get a shit job and work till i die, or just dissapear. I know my family loves me or whatever, but that doesnt change anything.

      Im sure theres more, but its the best i could muster. I hope it feeds your curiousity.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Of course you're worth it. Get out there and make those opportunities. Everything has a prurpose and you are here for a reason - you just have to find it.

    I was in my 40s before I found a natural ability to teach dyslexic kids how to read. My own son was severely dyslexic but I had sat back and left it to the 'experts' - who all failed him.

    Get up and do things with your life while you are young, you get tired when you get older :(

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      12 years ago

      This

      I too have been in your situation. I don't like my job but it enables me (for the most part) to pay my bills and work on my degree. I want to quit and just find a job that pays enough but every adult in my life is like "NUUU! GET THE DEGREE DON'T BE LIKE MEEEEEE!"

      Listen to the adults. Don't wait until you're old and tired.

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    Depression or Bad experiences. See someone and talk to them about this, can't be good to live life like that

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