Is it normal to have 1 annoying friend that...

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Is it normal to have 1 annoying friend that makes you into an asshole? I'll explain so I have this one friend that annoys the fuck out of me she acts like a child, gets mad easily, say really I mean really inappropriate awkward stuff out of the blue, talks every 5 seconds, talks sooo Fucken loud that I think I'm getting deaf and has really bad potty mouth 10x worse. And all of this is making me mad I try to avoid her but I can't because I work with her most of the time and this is stressing me out because all I want to do is avoid her and the more I try to avoid the more she follows me and the more stress I get from her bullshit problems and I get pissed at my family, my puppy and friends and that's not cool. I've noticed that I get more easily pissed off like her over stupid shit, my anger level is getting worse, and I've noticed that I've haven't been as much as a caring person I've been before and chilled person I used to be. Please help me with situation by commenting an idea or something.

So is it normal to have a annoying friend change your whole mood? Comment if you have any suggestions.

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  • Kiwi_Bird
    10 years ago

    I had a friend like that once. He was almost exactly like you described except he had a penchant for hitting people, including me. It wasn't a hard hit, more of a slap really. But enough to get you annoyed.

    I tried talking to him to tell him to calm down a bit. This only aggravated him. Seeing no other option I blocked all communication with him for a few days. When we did speak again he had calmed down a bit, wasn't so loud and had stopped those infuriating backhands.

    There were probably better ways I could have handled that but this way worked for me.

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    Curious, maybe you should just bring it up and see what she says. There could be a real fixable reason she's like that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Thanks for the advice, I feel much better now that a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

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  • highrider
    10 years ago

    That is no friend. Tell her to give you space and if she doesn't, tell her the 'friendship' or whater is terminated

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  • SHAKEStheClown
    10 years ago

    I had a friend like that a few years ago. I told her I was feeling overwhelmed and that I needed a break so I could focus on myself. I stopped taking her calls and now I we only text occasionally.

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  • asasasa
    10 years ago

    Normal and common. Unfortunately.

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    Why not tell her to fuck off? And remind me why is she a "friend".
    Such a person would get a smack in the mouth! Regardless of sex!
    That's the type of person that gets off, by driving you mad.
    Tell her she is not your friend and to stop annoying you.

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  • ThisIsImpossible
    10 years ago

    Why would you want to be around someone that made you feel that way? Tell her to fuck off. Or help her find a way to be happier if you can/want to. You could show her this post you made. Do something about it soon.

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  • Pika-girl
    10 years ago

    My friend is super perverted and always talks about wrong things at a wrong time. He lightly hits me, but playfully. My sister hates him, but I have a crush on him. It's weird because we're complete opposites and I like him for doing these things. WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME? Ah!

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  • Mazlow
    10 years ago

    Remind me again why you call her a 'Friend'?

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