Is it normal to have 6 active girlfriends

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I am polygamous and I talk to and get the contact info of a lot of girls( who all end up falling for me after we meetup). The way on how I see it is that all girls are beautiful and they all deserve someone to love them. I now actively talk to 6 or so girls and the number fluctuates higher an lower over time. Is it normal to want to focus on my goals, while not getting in a monogamous relationship while having multiple lovers? I can be quite the charmer with ladies sometime and I have heard that monogamous relationships has challenged some older mens potential success. But I know at the end of the day, my future is my ultimate goal. IIN?

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    I would make no justification of what you are doing. All people deserve love, who said you were the guy to give it to them? I'm sure the one for is out there but you it seems like you just may be wasting your time and their time too. Fine, success is your goal and you don't want to be tied down, that is normal, but don't call what you are doing to these girls loving, because I'm sure if they all knew what was going on they'd all be hurt.

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  • KatieLiz
    10 years ago

    If they aren't aware that you're a polygamist, then really you're not a polygamist at all, just a cheater.

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago

    this sounds more like a fantasy than real life.

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  • kit-kat-bar
    10 years ago

    I think you need these women to feel better about yourself and you are afraid of commitment because you are obviously afraid of failure, you are just relating that failure to your 'future success'. A real women would help you reach your goals, so she wouldn't really get in the way, but rather teach you way more than multiple women can. I hope you never find the right woman, cause you don't really deserve her. I would expect you wouldn't picture your ideal woman to be like you. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I'm never wrong.

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  • eternalsmoke31
    10 years ago

    Good man, eye on the prize and keep the women secondary.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Active like bacteria cultures.

    (No is my answer.)

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    I have several dormant girlfriends.

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  • Truth_teller
    10 years ago

    I am the OP of this post. And of course the girls know I am dating other women and they are perfectly fine with it. I explained to each of my girls that I am not the perfect guy for them and if they want to move on at any point they can, but they all chose to stay so they are all my girlfriends in a way. I help for them to grow as people and they do the same for me at times. I don't have to invest to much time into any specific girl because she understands the circumstances of this relationship. I do not consider myself a man whore, that is a term used by ignorant users who do not see the world as it is. Sex is meant to be experienced by people and the number of lovers in my(or anyones) life honestly means nothing; you can add meaning to it but that is entirely your limiting choice. I enjoy their compony and that is all that matters at the end of the day.

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    • pixie_dust
      9 years ago

      "truth teller"? this reminds me of the guy from the used car lot named "honest joe".

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    • funkedup
      10 years ago

      Sounds to me like you've already decided how you feel about this. Why do you need validation here?

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  • nanawhite
    10 years ago

    No, it's not normal. Saying you act that way because according to you, every girl should be loved is certainly just an excuse to justify your behaviour.
    If these girls agree to live a non-exclusive relationship, then It's fine, there's nothing wrong with it. It's a choice.But i'm pretty sure that it's not the case and most of them don't know about it. There are not so many girls out there that actually would really appreciate to share their love. To me, a relationship is supposed to be exclusive.

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  • 69
    10 years ago

    for someone so concerned with their future you sure waste a lot of time on those girls. for me it's hard enough to keep up with having just one

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans
    10 years ago

    I remember a quote from a user:Oh my god what a manwhore!!!!.I seem to agree with her.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    As long as you are not fucking them over.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Hahahahaha.

    That is all.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Your lucky to find that many women willing to do that.
    I will never understand why most people look down on this, but I do not understand romance either.
    Fuck what society says and do what you want.

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  • charli.m
    10 years ago

    Are your girlfriends aware that you have other girlfriends?

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