Is it normal to hate yourself?

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I don't know hoiw to explain this at all I just hate everything about myself.Besides my green eyes and red hair.

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Based on 61 votes (36 yes)
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  • AbbyJBoydstun2
    12 years ago

    Sadly, it is normal to hate oneself. However, you need to find things that you do like about yourself. Don't focus on the negative things, focus on the good.

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  • Shamanic
    12 years ago

    no its quite normal in fact We all hate you!

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  • planet416
    13 years ago

    when is hate ever normal? try Love. start with yourself, and by accepting the things that are good about you and changing the things you know aren't. it ain't rocket science.

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  • vance777
    14 years ago

    It's cuz I'm overweight...

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  • Tallerico500
    14 years ago

    Self loathing isn't healthy at all. Maybe you're overly self conscience about yourself. Did you do something that makes you feel guilty, or have you felt this way your whole life?

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  • SamuraiPeeper
    14 years ago

    Yeah, it can be normal. Have you been around people who constantly put you down, maybe someone in your family even? If you're sent the message you are worthless enough times, you will take it to heart and even cling to it long after the "lesson" has ended, if you get me. I have the same problem, myself.

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  • circle125
    14 years ago

    no, its not normal to hate yourself....but i, too, feel the same.....and yet I do know it is not mentally healthy to feel this way...dont know your whys...but i know mine...I was a bad teenager....followed me half way through my 20s...I have had problems with children, married 5 freaking times, lost many secure situations, and now..at 60....nothing....everyone else my age has got a plan, some security....me nothing...i have failed in everyway....i want to correct it...so i can retire with my head raised.....i cannot...the society does not except, nor will they help with my diverse background...I know i will die with no decent job, no health car, owing money, and very unhappy in life....my past is my burden....I cant even praise the Lord in church because I am living my shameful past...it wont go away....and now I am so filled with hatred for those who ccan get help...now adays they do not evn have crisis lines to try to help yourself.....UNLESS YOU HAVE MONEY.....people judge, the government judges, and society judges,,,,what ever your reasons are....if you are young...correct it now.....i have lost my ego....dont end up like me......

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  • AbnormalGuy
    14 years ago

    i guess it's kinda normal.. but it sure isn't good thinking this way, you'd be a lot happier if you accepted yourself

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