Is it normal to hate your mum?

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My mum treats me like poo (don't want to swear, so...) . Whenever my older brother and I fight, she always supports him, for example he calls me too thin, I make fun of his big feet, he hits me, I hit him back and she blames me.

While my brother is allowed to buy as much stuff as he wants, and is allowed to as soon as he asks, Im not allowed to. He is allowed to buy 400 dollar headphones, I can't. I can't buy $2 e.l.f makeup.

Im not allowed to go out at all, he is allowed to go wherever he pleases. Even if I ask just to go to my COUSINS house which is A STREET AWAY.

She uses corporal punishment on me (I'm the only person she uses this punishment on in this house). She uses a thin branch from the tree outside, and the great thing about these sticks is that the only bad thing it does to your skin is inflame it (unless its super hard and then it leaves scars which stay until around 2 years pass.

Is it normal? I feel sadder and sadder everyday. I don't really want to... live anymore. But Im too cowardly to die so... D:

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Based on 28 votes (13 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You too? Join the club.You are probably the 746th person to post almost those exact words on IIN this year. So, I guess the answer to your question is that it's quite normal, at least on IIN.
    How fucking sad is that?

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  • penisdump
    7 years ago

    why do you want to look like an elf so bad anyway??
    it sounds like she's trying to create a monster..

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  • Legion
    7 years ago

    sounds like an abusive situation, especially if it is leading to depression and thoughts of suicide.

    have you talked to any of your extended family or friends, or perhaps the authorities? there is a Domestic abuse Hot line you can call, maybe they can help you, or perhaps the suicide prevention hotline.

    Especially that fact that she beats you with a stick, thats just awful!

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  • TheTIMEHASCOME
    8 years ago

    Either your Mum's Dr Mengele, your Pinochio or she's toughening you up for the cruel world. My advice join the French Foreign Legion

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Sorry, I voted no, because the situation isn't normal and should've been yes, normal for anyone to hate someone who treats them unfairly and assaults them.

    Can you talk to some adult you trust outside your family? It all sounds very unhealthy for you

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  • Vauael
    8 years ago

    No. This is not normal. Your mother should not treat you that way. Have you told her how you feel?

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