Is it normal to hate your mother

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I hate my mother more than anything I probably hate her the worst. She's a selfish bitch and she treated me like crap MY WHOLE LIFE. I went away to school 400 miles away from my hometown NOT because i liked the school that much just because it was the farthest school away from my mother that i got accepted into. But the last foul as thing she did was a few years ago when I just turned 18 I soon found out i was pregnant. she fought me every SINGLE DAY about getting an abortion i made it to 3 months pregnant before my long term boyfriend broke up with me and left me alone pregnant. I felt dead I felt worse than i've ever felt in my life and ofcourse instead of being a mother and acting concern about my feelings she only blurted rude and ridiculous things out of her mouth like i'm stupid and thats why your bf left because you have no business having a baby and you need to get an abortion. So ofcourse being depressed and thinking my mom was looking out for me i let her pressure me into giving up on my child. I loved that baby more than life and that was the dumbest thing i've ever done. Like the fact that my most is low enough person to look at your child crying on the floor and you best comfort is to yell insults and abortions in her face. BITCH i hate her me and my boyfriend stays together for about another year but with our child gone we were never the same and we currently dont speak. we had wedding plans and family plans and that is all gone and YES i blame myself but i was a freaking kid I BLAME my mother! She should have thought more about MY LIFE and not hers !

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  • Demundo
    10 years ago

    Sorry to hear about the abortion but why did your bf leave? It sounds like you should be angry at him but instead you blame your mother. It was your bf who got you pregnant and then abandoned you, unless your mother put some sperm on a turkey baster and shoved it inside you. Solve your bf problem first and then examine your mom.

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  • utopia82
    10 years ago

    Totally normal. However, unless you are done with school, and ONE of you makes enough to support the family, she might have been exhibiting "tough love" on you. Seriously, if you hadn't been willing to give that baby up for adoption, (s) he would have destroyed your life. As a result, you would have grown to resent him/her. Not on purpose mind you, but when you turn 28, and go to your ten year high school reunion, and see how much you struggle financially compared to your peers, it gets to you. Not to mention, the years of wondering what you would be doing if you didnt have kids. Take this as a learning example, and use birth control! Also, if you are under 25, dont even think about the possibility of marriage.
    But back to the subject at hand, we ALL fucking hate our bitch mothers. And some of us dont stop. Unless she has told you that you are completely worthless compared to your meth addicted sister after you get home from iraq, maybe she might just possibly be worried about you. Put yourself in her place. If your daughter in college got pregnant part way through, how would you react? Or, think about this. If you had that baby, and you had married the father, you take care of the baby while he works and goes to school. What the fuck would you have done if he left you at 30 with no work history, no education beyond high school, kids that he wont pay child support for, with no goddamn income? You would have been completely fucked. Your kids would have been fucked. As in, homeless. Think about that before you decide to not wear a goddamned condom dumbass.

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  • flowergirl87
    10 years ago

    You have every right to feel this way and don't deny yourself those feelings. I'm sorry you've gone through this. I don't know her, but I will say that your mother (as a parent) was probably trying to think about what was best for you blah, blah. But she shouldn't have pressured you and shouldn't have made it about her if she did. Your life is your life and make sure no one pressures you into things in the future. That's the best you can do now. Make your own decisions and make them responsibly and mindfully. If you have any creative flair, I suggest you use it now and with these feelings running around inside you, you'll probably make some of the best art of your life! Whether it's painting, music, writing, whatever. Just an idea and one that might help you out and help you to move on.

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  • SangoNyappy
    10 years ago

    Of course it's normal. I don't understand why people say things like "you have to love her because she's your mom!"
    No. If anyone treats you like shit you have every right to hate them.

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    It's easy to put all the blame on your mother. Whatever has happened now you are old enough to make your life a better one. Stop being so angry - life is sometimes a bitch but you can tame her. I had had some bad moments too (I still have some now and then) but I have always believe that things always get better. Sometimes it takes years but things always straighten out.

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