Is it normal to hate your mother?

Yes. It's totally normal in certain situations. I reallllllly don't like my mother, not because of the things she did, but for the things she didn't do...like be there!

I feel angst towards my mother a lot. She was a great mother but not a good role model. I'm ashamed of her. She talks about others, scorns people, and complains. She's also full of herself. I still love her.
Try to think of the positives of your mother! That always helps.

i'm pretty sure it's very normal for teens to feel hate towards their moms. well i dont, i luv my mom but i do get pretty angry/upset with her a lot of times. a while ago it was so bad i would mistake the anger for hate cuz i would feel like hurting/killing her sometimes but after that i would feel like crying cuz i dont really hate her :( i luv my mom even though she can be a pain in the neck

when in my 30's (I'm a female) I thought I hated my mother for all the little things I remembered she did when I was a child. This happens (I'm told) between 25-45 as the memories become stronger. As you get older, you become more understanding and realize mothers are flawed human beings who struggle with their own childhood memories. This would be a good time for you to reflect on the good things and forgive her the bad so your own children will not do what you're doing. I think you're normal, though.

It's normal to hate your mother if she is a horrible person or has hurt you a lot. I have been lucky to have a great mother but my fathers mother was awful she abandoned her kids and then when she came back around she played mental games. I believe all children should be wanted children, if you don't want them don't f*****g have them!

Yes. But, in time, you'll grow out of it.

I don't think it's normal.. my mom has put me through some terrible shit, but in the end I still love her. Not sure for everyone, but it's kind of biologically built in to love your parents. (Not just mom, but dad to!)
Then again, there's my friend who has great parents and he always says he hates them.. whats up with that? They bought him a car, paid for his school, pay his insurance.Not just financially, they are so nice to him! Aannnd he says he hates them.

My mum can annoy me alot sometimes and I feel like hurting/killing her but later I feel so stupid for thinking about that and just want to hug her instead so I doubt its hate.

If your mom is a total crazy ass who made your life hell then yes its normal. If you hate her because she won't buy you a new xbox then no its not lol

It's normal to feel anger and dislike and maybe hate at times but unless she did something really bad, bot full on nonstop hate.

For the majority of people out there, Your mothers love you, you will see it one day.

I think it's PERFECTLY normal to hate one's mother. We have been culturally (religiously) thaught to love our mothers "honor thy father and thy mother"; however the Torah also has the same commandment for the parents to honor their children and many don't. Some feel "entitlement" to treat their children terribly, that's where criminals come form, people living on wellfare and on the streets.... POOR PARENTING. Often times dragged on through hundreds of hears of MORE poor parenting. I agree, if we hate our motheres we hate them, trust me I had a CUNT od a mother a REAL FUCKING MANIPULATIVE CUNT. She ruined my childhood, most of young adult life, he had everyone convinced of a charade she lived in her head, in which she was gorgeous, perfect, righterous, almost virginal like (considring she slept with the man that liked me, a litlte "mother-daughter compettition she created). Only I did not know any better because she was my mother and she was "supposed to love me", or lied about it. This is called "Narcissistic disorder", this is a desease, most of the stories I've read so far on this website about daughters hating their mothers and telling the horror stories, they all sound like my mother. I am not an expert, however, I have done my research on this subject and there are many manifestations of this psychosomatic disorder. Research it: www.daugthersofnarcissisticmothers.com, a wonderful book I read: "Will I ever be good enough", by Karyn McBride. All great resources to get to undertand why you hate your mothers. I don't think you can beat me... lol, I was given birth to the queen of bitches and I am trying to come to terms with her, she is dead and I do not feel sorry for how hard she had it as a child, she made it way harder for me. I feel sorry for her, for being such a vane, empty-headed cunt.

I hate my mum....im 23 im currently living at home at the moment as i lost my job due to the "recession"
but ive hated my mum since i was about 5, 6 years old. As far back as i can rememeber she used to let groups of guys come around and do drugs. I used to hear her having sex with different guys, she used to dump me at random peoples houses, (they were random to me but probs ppl she knew). she will cook a meal for herself and leave food cuttings laying around, cook herself breakfast and leave egg shells laying around, fills the sink full of dirty pots, dishes and water and leave it for days so it begins to stink. she commited fraud in my name, made me take out a credit card for her when i was 18 that i paid back when i was 21. she has no intrest in what i do what i want to do but tells me all about her self like i asked. i really really really hate the selfish dirty cow. i cannot wait for her to die. ive begged so many times to have a good relationship with her but shes so stuck in her ways that she does not care about anyone else not even her granddaughter, she actually makes me cry with anger because i cannot hit her and if i did i dont think id stop. i remember as a child asking her for a hug and her reply was why what are you going to ask for. im mixed race and hate older black women and feel that my relationship with girls has been corrupted by the way i feel about my mum as i do not care about either of them. ive lived on my own wen i was 19 20 21 and 22 but lost my job and have moved back home untill i find a new job my house has never eva smelt as bad as this place does simply becus she doesnt clean her plates or the kitchen and have the nerve to say im a tramp.

yes it's possible,if she's treated you like shit,that's understandable
i hate my father for example,he's a big fucking failure,and he's made my life a lot shittier than anyone else,though i don't hate my mom,she's treated me fine,i'm the one who's caused some problems to her

Hate is a powerful word and I would never use it against someone. I love my mother to no end. She had me, raised me, and still helps me to this day.

I hate my mother, my mother hates her's and so on and so on. It's completely normal for mother daughter relationships to be messed up in my family.

It's perfectly normal, no matter what age you are. It's normal to have feelings of hate towards anyone that you love, because they're always going to want the best for you, and the best usually isn't what you want. When I was about 14 I had feelings of intense hate towards my mother, and mostly it was just because I was an angry teenager and my brain was fucked up anyways. I said some really hurtful things to her and we even got in physical fights sometimes. She even kicked me out of the house on a couple occasions. Now that I'm a few years older and wiser (I'm 21) I can see how hard my mother still works to keep our family together and how she really has done a great job of raising my brother and I. I see other people my age and I think how glad I am that I didn't turn out like them. I love my mother because she is my mother, and there will never be anyone else like her.

My mother is horrible. As she doesn't respect me, lies, and has told me all my life how worthless I am in one form or another. As a child up until the age of 16 (now I'm 40), she would hit me when ever she felt like it, yell and scream at me, jab me in the back, and blame for anything she wanted no matter how random. She's a bully, and dictator, trying to control every aspect of my life. On top of it all she's jealous of the relationship I have with my husband. So yes it can be normal to hate your mother. If she's like mine the question becomes....What is there left to love??

i guess it can be...i dnt h8 my mum i jst am ashamed of her at times because of the way she is...her drink problem which has stemmed from her past but she nw still uses it as an excuse to drink! me and my sisters get angry at her bt at the end of the day we no she needs us even tho she dusnt admit it...