Is it normal to hate your manipulative mother?
I hate my mother... im not talking about merely disliking my horrible putrid excuse for a mother, no i passionately hate and despise her and i suspect many other people around the world secretly harbor an as of yet taboo dislike/hatred of their own mother's who are becoming increasingly vile and abusive towards their own children. I started this blog because im sick and tired of mothers being displayed as saintly nurturing Ne'er-do-wrong's that have only the best interests of their children at heart. Its time we take that little myth apart for good and shine a light on horrible mothers everywhere.
Why do i hate my mother? because like many other mothers she is manipulative, lazy, disrespectful, selfish and at times downright fucking EVIL.
How you ask? let me count the ways...
She is never wrong and effectively turns even the slightest criticisms of her actions into an incredibly disingenuous obviously forced escalation of anger, in hopes that simply appearing angry enough at any logical refutation of her bullshit, will make it appear as though she is in the right, and a victim of attack from the person calling out her bullshit. Thats right when this woman knows she is in the wrong and is confronted with the inconvenience of having to take responsibility for her misdoings, she feigns anger and emotional injury so as to appear genuinely hurt in order to gain sympathy from anyone present. This is what this sorry sack of human being would rather do instead of merely accepting and seeking solutions to the conflict SHE stirs up.
I have no formal training in psychology, and thus im not going to try to tell you what symtoms my taloned harpy of a mother exhibits according to Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, but i will coin my own terms that will undoubtedly dovetail with many of the worst psychologically destructive and narcissistic afflictions known to modern science.
here are various scenarios you fellow mother haters might appreciate exhibited by my mother dearest. does your mother quite literally suck the life and fun out of absolutely everything? does she have a way of immediately making everyone around her miserable, while simultaneously ensuring that pointing this fact out to her will only make it more miserable for you and everyone else?
If you live with her do you immediately feel an all encompassing relief the moment she leaves, and a sinking dreadful feeling bordering on abject horror when she returns? If you live on your own, would you rather run through a mine-field than to have to endure another insufferable visit from the wretched mother dearest and her constant sideways manipulative passive aggressive insults?
If you have children, or plan to in the future do you make every effort to isolate them from your mother because you simply refuse to allow that manipulative arachnid to seep her toxic poison into your progeny? If you have attempted to maintain some sort of relationship with her so as to not deprive your children of a grandmother, has the harpy obfuscated her true manipulative nature while in front of your children, in hopes of gaining their favor at what will invariably and inevitably come at your expense?
You my friend have what i like to call the latent black widow for a mother, typified by the millions proverbial eggs that she hatches and requires everybody to walk on, as well as the slow and toxic poison she secretes into everyone around her until it becomes an all encompassing miasma. if this is your mother stay tuned, because now there is a place, where she cant hide her miserable existence from the exposure we are about to visit upon her. if you are a fellow mother hater feel free to share your own horrible experiences at the hands of your manipulative shrew of a mother...Join me... more to come soon.
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