Is it normal to hate your fiance smoking with girls.

I understand now. I have a life too. A life that I really want to live and make the most of. I spent so much time not trusting him, and trying to control his life that I've missed so much of mind along the way. I would make my life so much easier if I could just take my mind off of him. If there is any reason why he would want to do something I would not be okay with, I have that choice and that right and get up and walk away with my life in those bags.

Not trusting your spouse is very unhealthy. It will surely not change the relationship for the better.

I personally felt like a prisoner to my mind. And I'm just now trying to free myself. As hard as it is to feel like something is yours, and to let it go free at the same time, is like giving your heart away to a stranger who never promised you love in the first place.

This is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do because loving him is like dying. Because it's the last thing I'll ever do. So why not live happily and keep my hopes and dreams too.

I don't like my boyfriend smoking weed with other women, unless im there. Some girls can't be trusted, thats why i dont like the idea of him smoking with them.

I don't think it's normal that you're uncomfortable with it. I can't see any logical reason why it would be bad for him to smoke with other women.

That said, if he doesn't think it's reasonable for you to ask him not to smoke with other women he should tell you that instead of agreeing not to but then doing it anyway.

my husband does the same thing,one girl cames three times a day and take my husband for a ride and go smoke weed, i tell him that i dont want this, but he said that you have to trust me, we have a baby, he is making my life miserabely, and i dont have a day without crying and feel depressed, what can i do? i cant leave him, because he can take my baby away from me, and if i leave him, i cant go anywhere, i dont know where to go, i dont have my family with me,

If you trust him you'll let him live his life and know for a fact that he will come back to you at the end of the day. You can't keep somebody on a leash and control their life then expect them to respect your opinions.

Start snorting coke or smoking crack with other men... That will show him who's boss.... Or just dump his ass there's plenty of pot heads who smoke with guy friends insteda of girl friends!

...yeah, don't get high with them.
I would say that's pretty normal. People may not like it, but girls are insecure.
I feel like pot-smoking is pretty intimate, right? You're with people you trust (or should be able to trust with your illegal secret), you do have to put your mouth on the same little thing as other people put their mouth, and it's like... they're buddies, "oh, we're so close, we smoke pot together."
I wouldn't want my boyfriend sharing that with other people.

I'm pregnant.

If you cant beat em, join em.
Maybe you should go with him and get high and see what happens.

Because I love him. I guess it's not so much an issue of trust, because if it really came down to it, I wouldn't expect him to go forth with anything sexual "if" any girl were to try. But I just feel so uncomfortable because of his mouth and because I see wonders in him that I wouldn't want any other girl to see for fear they may flirt with him. So I guess it's more a selfish thing than a trust issue?

If you boyfriend is not trustworthy, as I have mentioned, I feel as though I have a right to feel awkward when he decides to smoke with other woman.

I'm all for smoking in groups, that's just the way it's supposed to be done. You can't really get jealous of him smoking with girls unless it's only girls. If its only girls and you're not invited then yea maybe you should start freaking out. From experience though he's probably just looking for someone to smoke with.

Give him a consequence. Say that if he continues to smoke with other girls, that you will not speak to him for a while, or something along those lines. Pull back a little and make him wonder what you're going to do next.