Is it normal to hate your ex but still fantasize bout sex with them?

My boyfriend and I broke up a while ago now and both dislike eachother very much but at the same time, i continue to fantasize about having sex with him. Is it normal if you dislike them so much?

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Based on 108 votes (88 yes)
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  • TheForbiddenHottie

    its not just normal, its hot and terrific when you masturbate

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  • yellowchalk

    My first boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other when we were pretty young. Now, I really don't like my ex, but I want to have sex with him... mostly I want to see how much his dick has changed, if he's gotten any better, and to show him that I'm sexier than any bitch he's gonna fuck.

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  • 343Boy

    Sounds like you were only interested in the sex in the first place.

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    • yourenottheonlyone

      That's not true.

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  • SuperLouis

    Get a dildo

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  • yourenottheonlyone

    Might be because i enjoyed it with him the most

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  • pixie_dust

    find a man that likes to lick and knows how to harnass the power of your clitoris.

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  • abamig03

    @343Boy: thats so not true i broke up with my bf bcos of the distance and non-communication and although its being two years and i really can't stand him i still think of us having sex, i think its normal i guess "we" are just not over them yet even if "we" really hate them! search through yourself and you'll find out that you still have some kind of feelings for him so get rid of those feelings/thoughts if you can inorder to get rid of him... i hope i helped...

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  • nocharge

    That's normal. It's a package deal, and not all of the package was bad. Your body still wants what it enjoyed, and you'll try to return to the familiar. A lot of divorced couples keep crawling in bed together and don't realize what compels them to do so.

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  • 8Serene8

    Yeah I can't think about any of my exes without feeling the compulsion to throw up. Move on.

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  • kellstar

    I can't even think of my ex without my skin crawling, if I thought of being with him sexually I think I may vomit! And I was married to him for seven years and had a child to him.
    You will find someone better who will make it feel 100%

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  • TheTodd11

    I don't like my Ex, and thinking about having sex with her makes me physically sick....

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  • Echoes

    I don't know what to call this, mental or emotional masochism?

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