Is it normal to hate your boyfriend's family? mostly his sister.

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I been with my boyfriend for over a year now, I love him, he's great and everything I could ask for in someone. But his family, oh my, -_- . I have no problem with his mom, she's very nice and we get along, his dad is an asshole to him so that's why I do not like him. But his sister, I can't stand. I have no idea why, she's just so annoying. She's always trying to play victim and she seems very weak minded and ignorant. He knows I do not like her, but it's just seems like I will never like her and he wants us to get married some day probably next year. And sometimes I think, ima spend my life with him and I can't stand his sister nor his dad. So is it gonna work? Do I just hide my feelings or pretend? It's very annoying. Especially since I'm the type of person that it shows right away, if I like someone or not. I can't hide much. Or at all . He and I always have inside jokes, and she just takes them and fucks them up. She ruins it and makes it not funny no more, and since I don't like her. I don't even wanna hear them anymore. She had a friend and she liked my boyfriend. And one day that friend was tryna be slick and called my boyfriend something I only call him, ever. So I told her to fuck off and stop talking to him. And a few weeks later, his sister got threatened at work by one of her coworkers wife. And she went to the police and reported her. (This was 3 months after I had sent her friend the message to fuck off) and her friend is gonna send her the message at that moment (at the police station) and try to say I threatened her. So my boyfriends sister pulled out her phone and was like "look mom, Jamie threatened my friend too" and I was like wtf? Are you serious. How are you gonna wait 3 months to show someone that and try to play victim also. Well I just can't stand her. I don't like her
And I can't help it. Also, sometimes my boyfriend complains about them and I defend him. And he gets mad at me bc I defend him -.- so it's like. Do I not say shit? It's just annoying.

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Comments ( 11 )
  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    There are annoying stupid people everywhere and we all have to learn to not react to them, especially if they're related to a boy or girlfriend. You need to learn some detachment or this is will adversely affect your relationship with your boyfriend.

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    • landi41
      7 years ago

      You're right, I been trying. It's just irritating.

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        Well, just keep practising! Learning to detach from annoying fuckwits is a very valuable skill.

        It's also a good idea if you can vent about it safely and not with your boyfriend: keep a journal or keep posting on here. Just try not to let her know how idiotic you know she is.

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        • landi41
          7 years ago

          That's what I been doing, just keep posting on here because I know it'll create problems with him. And .-. She's very idiotic -.-

          He's from a different country than where I'm from, but he mocks the way some of my people talk and I don't mind, bc it's him. But she thinks it's okay and just do it. Which I don't like because I don't even like her.

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          • Ellenna
            7 years ago

            So he's a fuckwit too?

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            • landi41
              7 years ago

              Lol no, we just joke like that. We have some inside jokes and I joke with him but she just does it and tries to be funny, but she isn't-.-

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          • landi41
            7 years ago

            But I don't say anything, just keep biting my tongue.

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  • EnigmaT21
    7 years ago

    fuck its normal to hate someone like that, but dont let it get in your relationship just avoid bad moments and tell your bf that you dont want to relate to her, there are assholes everywhere but you cant let them ruin what you have.

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    • landi41
      7 years ago

      Thank you, and I'm learning to just bite my toungue, I don't wanna ruin anything.

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