Is it normal to hate your boyfriend?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 years. We have talked about getting married, buying a house and growing old together. But lately, I just look at him and I don't want to be near him. I don't want him to touch me, I don't wanna have sex with him, I just wanna get as far away from him as possible. It just seems that lately, all he wants to do is have sex. We don't go out, he NEVER gets me gifts, unless it's a birthday or Valentine's. We only talk about whats on tv or the news. When I sit around and think about it, I relies we really don't have alot in common. I could go on and on about this all day. I do love him but it's not the same love as it was 7 years ago. Part of me wonders if I was blinded by lust. And now that the lust has wore off, I don't see the same guy. Is it normal to just wake up one day and not like the person you're with anymore? There's more to the story but that's all I feel like getting into right now. Questions, just ask.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    It doesn't sound like you hate him it sound like youre really bored with him.
    I think its time to decide if youre going to settle for this or try and find someone exciting...but most people get a bit boring after 7 years no matter how interesting they are at first.

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  • Immune2BS&way2Illuminated
    11 years ago

    Not all things remain the same. It's sad but true...

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Something opened your eyes to this, what was that one thing, or did you just fall for another?

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    • extreme_momma
      11 years ago

      i just woke up one morning and BOOM! it was there.....

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