Is it normal to hate watching girls being raped/abused even in fiction

it makes me sick and sometimes angry to come across games(or any peace of media ) about raping and abusing girl (bdsm/tentakles etc..) and i was wondering if i was the only guy who feel that way

edit:well , it's less about not thinking that rape is moral , and more about not being sexualy arosed by it , which i noticed that's what get most people about porn , non consentual sex ? unless i am misstaking

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  • Bandsforlife84

    (I'm a girl) I would say that is normal because rape is a terrible thing that should never happen to anybody. A feeling of anger towards something like that would make sense

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  • XYXY

    So forgive me if I’m wrong, but it sounds to me as though you think it’s ok but you would prefer it if you got turned on by it?
    As a woman who was raped many years ago I find it repulsive. It’s a degrading, humiliating and frightening experience to go through. At the time it left me feeling vulnerable and scared to go out. It totally messed up my head and when I did eventually start to live my life again I did so from a point of feeling worthless, so just went totally mad believing it didn’t matter how much I abused my body because that’s all I was worth. It was only once I met my husband I started to calm down. He saved my life, got me back on the straight and narrow. I owe him everything.
    I never got justice for what happened to me, as I was advised at the time, that as there was no proof the sex wasn’t consensual. I was told I had no chance of a conviction. However, there was the possibility I could find myself on a charge for making a false allegation.

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    • sm28

      hello i am sorry it took me this long to answer but I recently realised this place wasn't a great place for me to share personal stuff despite what the name of the website implies , however before I remove my acc i wanted to say I am really sorry for what happened and I am really glad you met your husband who helped get over the situation you were in , what you mentioned was exactly the reason I asked my question in fact , I am really sorry if I couldn't get my idea across clearly but what I actually meant was that I didn't get why most guys enjoy and get turned on by the idea of rape when it comes to sexual activities as in "roleplay" despite how horrible it is , and I wanted to know if I was the only one , I don't want to feel turned on by it I don't want to like it , I just wanted to know people enjoy what I consider as one of the most sickening acts someone could ever do , thank you for sharing your story , I prey for you and your husband to have a wonderful life together and that you won't have to go through something as horrible ever again

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  • Ditnyte

    Don’t know why you would be asking this, it’s pretty much the default position to hate rape. Hell im even into rapey kind of stuff but I still think it’s gross when it isn’t in the context of consensual role play between partners

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Porn is training a generation of young men to find rape arousing and it’s beyond disturbing. I’d say it’s a good thing they haven’t got you.

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

      Young women too believe it or not. These girls out here are like "FUCK ME LIKE A PIG!!! IM HUMAN FUCKIN GARBAGE! FUCK ME!!!"

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's completely normal to hate rape, because rape is disgusting, and horrible. I'm a little confused about why you're asking this, because being repulsed, and horrified by rape is the normal, and default position that everyone should feel. When people talk about rape as some fantasy, or fetish bullshit that sort of thought process is disordered, and degenerate.

    Do you watch a lot of pornography, or something. Pornography messes up people's minds.

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    • well , it's less about thinking that rape is moral , and more about not being sexualy arosed by it , which i noticed that's what get most people about porn , non consentual sex ? unless i am misstaking

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  • EnglishLad

    Honestly the fact that porn has got this disturbing already makes me wonder just how fucked up porn will get in the future, and the fact that rape fantasies are a thing is actually really sad when you look at the bigger picture and what that implies.

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  • KholatKhult

    The only people who find rape arousing are fucked in the head and brainwashed by pornography.

    Rape fetishists should be killed, whether they’ve acted on it or not.

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    • Clunk42

      That's some Hitler-level logic right there. "There can't be any bad rape-fetishists if there are no rape-fetishists." "There can't be any bad Jews if there are no Jews."

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      • KholatKhult

        1 There is no good person who wants to rape people
        2 Did you just compare Jews to rape fetishists

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        • Clunk42

          They're both groups of people. I'm comparing your logic to Hitler's. You think the rape-fetishists should all be killed, whether they've done anything or not. Hitler wanted the Jews to all be killed, whether they did anything or not.

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          • KholatKhult

            I also think pedophiles should be killed too, whether they’ve done anything or not. Evil needs to be removed from the earth, and killing is the most surefire way to do it.

            Wanting to harm people makes you a dangerous person, and I don’t want dangerous people on the same planet that I raise my children on.

            Look at yourself right now, you’re defending people who find trauma and abuse attractive. Readjust.

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  • Mammal-lover

    Tentakles? Do you mean tentacles? Like squids n junk. Cause I mean some if it is kinda nice.

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  • TerriAngel

    Dropped past comments.
    Forgive me if this is repetative.
    Sex is meant as a gift from god to be enjoyed by everyone involved.
    There is no place in sex for pain or junk like that.
    Maybe I'm not normal.
    But sex should be enjoyed.
    By anyone who is involved.
    What is the point of it.
    If you aren't giving, and receiving the greatest pleasures known to mankind.
    As god intended.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    Several girls I've been with like to be dominated like that. As long as its not hurting someone I dont see it to be a problem.

    https://ibb.co/TKNxBkn

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  • raisinbran

    I find it disturbing and sad.

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  • my_life_my_way

    I’m a girl and that stuff turns me on. I fantasise about a guy slitting my throat or stabbing me while he fucks me

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      I like role playing rape. Me and my missus do it in the shower. We pretend we are in prison and I'm the big raper guy and she is the poor victim. She gets turned on when I try to force it in her bum, for that though we need some conditioner because water makes it difficult :)

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      • barefoot_on_the_sand

        Disgusting.

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          Role play is disgusting, most disagree with you

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    Weird

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    • gotta work harder on your trolling m8

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        Not trolling you silly duffer.
        I mean its weird for you to bring this up!
        Almost like you are trying to prove to yourself that you are not a bad person by saying this to others out loud, but really you find rape and other vile acts attractive and it turns you on.

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        • as i said in a previous comment , it's less about thinking that rape is moral , and more about not being sexualy arosed by it , which i noticed that's what get most people about porn , non consentual sex ? unless i am misstaking

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