Is it normal to hate vietnamese people?

i am vietnamese and have been fighting to figure out my culture for years, as i have always felt something gravely wrong with it. you won't understand until you genuinely, thoroughly scrutinize the culture.... it runs deep and is difficult to understand. the vietnamese are nasty people. vietnamese people in vietnam say that the vietnamese are nasty people... recently my uncle has stated, of his own people, that they were the most disgusting on earth. and no he's not self-degrading or an idiot, he has the guts to perceive what is wrong in himself. cambodia and thailand, the two countries next to vietnam... have tourism return rates of 50% (50% of tourists come back a second time). the return rate for vietnam is 5%. think about this for a second and don't dismiss it as nothing. tourists get stolen from and are viewed as walking dollar signs... and it isn't just about theft, like i said the issues run deep. the tendency to steal and act insensitively comes from SOMEWHERE, it lies in the character of the vietnamese people. let me tell you there is something SERIOUSLY wrong with vietnamese people, they live in a culture of shame. kids are raised in it, and adults never get out of it. they spend their 'adult' lives trying to make up for the lack of genuine love they had growing up, in essence they never do. the vietnamese are MANIPULATIVE, they are deceptive and cunning and mischievous, they fuck over not just outsiders, they do not treat others of their own well, they don't treat themselves well, and that's the most important part. they grew up with guilt-tripping, self-serving, manipulative love from their parents. scrutinize vietnamese culture and you will understand how the root of shame affects us all. parenting needs to be changed. the vietnamese shame their child into subservience, you are literally their slave, as you have to leap to attention and scurry off to do their bidding at their will. the vietnamese do not have a mind of their own, they are told that if they shame their parents they are bad children, so as they grow up they learn to never think. most of all they learn to HATE themselves. this is where all the HATRED of others comes from.... nobody feels more shameful of themselves and worthless than the vietnamese. their music has a perpetual whining, sobbing style to it, and crying is literally a perpetual staple in their theater. they are obsessed with their own sickness and death, and have an extreme victim mentality. they are not capable of loving themselves much less loving others. they need to be understood but first the truth must be told about them. we must confront what is wrong in order to make it right. they need to be truthful with themselves.

they are very honest about the paranoia they feel though. they constantly talk smack about others because they HONESTLY feel like the whole world is out to get them, EVERYBODY is out to get them and put them down. it's insane how much my parents and my relatives and vietnamese in general talk about people fucking them over when in reality nothing is happening. i say they're honest about it because their pathetic paranoia comes from real feelings of defectiveness in themselves, if they are such terrible people, who wouldn't want to fuck them over? the vietnamese need to SEE, IDENTIFY and COME TO TERMS WITH THEIR SHAME. stop being fucking repressive amnesiacs, try thinking once in a while and see what's wrong about the way you think.

Don't hate people people because of there culture, hate them because of there personal actions.

Every nation has their disgusting people. So don't just point your finger to the Vietnamese. There are the good and the bad ones. And I hate those gangs, too. I hate those gangs from every nation.

They are so thick people, they dont understand anything, been living in Vietnam for a couple of years...
Jesus christ they are horrible, dum, creedy, selfish, pathetic people...

Dont ever trust them, they will fuck you over at one point... I always gave a lot to them, but never has one of them ever givin me anything, totaly cheap skates...

They always lie, thats normal in Vietnam...

This here is an old story thats been going around in Vietnam for many years, you walk Down the street and meet your friend, he has a bowl of rice, ask him if you can have half of it, if he says no then make sure he dosent get anything of the rice at all..... True story still alive today

If you by mistake give lets say a taxi driver a 500000 vnd. note instead of a 20000 note (they look nearly the same) It is your fault that you didnt give him the Wright one, not him. So he will take it and not say anything, THEY ARE SO FAKE PEOPLE.....

Dont ever compare them with Thais, i have met hundreds of people traveling through Vietnam after beeing in Cambodia or Thailand before arriving in Vietnam, they all say the same, horrible people

By statistics around 85% of people, will never return to Vietnam.

Brace yourself if you want to visit that country, THEY ARE LIKE ANIMALS, NOT HUMANS

Vietnamese men are the laziest people I've ever worked with. They think its ok for them to lie, chat and steal. I've been lied to and had things stolen by vietnamese people.

Vietnamese women dont want to marry vietnamese men. The worst person for a Cambodian or Thai person to marry is a vietnamese, they will be disowned by their families and the laughing stock of the town.

It's just not Asians. Any group that terrorizes a neighborhood should be shot. I am the minority in my town and I want to move also. I hate the violence. I'm sick of all the political correctness.

Vietnamese are lazy, corrupt, stupid and only think of ripping off other people. That's why all other south east asian countries like Thai, Cambodia, Laos, etc hate the vietnamese. Its normal to hate them and their low IQ language.

Large groups of any kind of immigrants in your country always makes you hate them (if you have to live with them). Take Arizona for instance, those ppl generally hate mexicans bc they have to deal with loads of them on a daily basis. Ppl in border states almost always understand this. It's only ppl in less visibly affected or gated communities that are all pro-hordes of illegal immigrants.

I have been living in Vietnam for the past 10 months, f*ck yea they are the STUPIDEST people on earth. I bet no country is as DUMB as they are. Everyday is a struggle for me here. I will move from this sh*thole soon and NEVER EVER come back. Its a nightmare for a foreigner to live in this stupid country.
They LIE, they are manipulative, they rip you off and STEAL all your money, treat you like sh*t. What makes me wonder is, vietnamese have NOTHING to feel proud about themselves and yet they are so proud. They are RUDE, and make sharp comments at the foreigners every single time we pass by them. UGLIEST people on this whole planet. Never have I been so depressed in my whole life and never have I hated anyone as much as I HATE vietnamese. I have zero respect for them and will continue to spread this news everywhere I go so no other person gets affected as me.

The thing about children injecting in front of buildings... Uhh. Don't they feel embarrassed? How can they do ANYTHING like that?

It is normal to hate Vietnamese! I'm glad I've found someone else who hates them!

I hate Vietnamese because
1. They protest too much. Even the women protest too much.
2. They are too smart. I know what you're thinking... Is that a bad thing? Hmm... So you mean you're complaining that their CVs are not good enough & they need to compete with you for a job more?
3. They don't have hearts & don't help people.

they are the most dishonest, scandalous, violent and pissy people in the world. They may look normal and , but beware what they do behind closed door. They could be planning a scam or figure ways to steal your property. They could be shoplifters and get other "normal" vietnamese friends to help them steal clothes, and do scams. They gamble like greedy monkeys at all the freakin casinos talking in their language that sounds like someone who has down's syndrome. I could go on and on with these leeches but i'll stop here. Thank you come again :)

As long as the Viets have no respect for other people (and even themselves) it will be normal that many people hate them. They are corrupt and they rip you off, they are not polite either and in HCMC it's a hell of brutality and all this. When will the time come that a basic human education will change their disrespectful attitude to people. I'm not an Ami, I'm not a Chinese, I'm not a Frenchy. It even seems to me they just as much hate their neighbour as the rest of the world. Is that the un-freedom in which they have to live ? Is it their greediness ? Is it the lack of education ? Is it self loathing ? Is it something related to IQ ?

It's not the Vietnamese people, it's that you're probably living in a Vietnamese ghetto.

Also, if you want to bridge your relation, go have some Pho. That should clear things up.

Fuck yeah! I'd move asap.

and they have parties every night - their voice so loud,weird and annoying but no one dares to tell them to shut up. The cops are useless, they never show up for minor incidents like noise complaint

First of all, that has got to be one of the most ignorant and racist comments I've ever heard. From an immigration standpoint, the first wave of Vietnamese people came to the United States in 1975, and if you look at the percentage of Vietnamese people you will find a large number of doctors, lawyers, and other high level professionals compared to other Asian immigrants from: Laos, Cambodia, Thai, Malaysia, Indonesians, etc. Although I was born in the united states, I'm a Vietnamese American doctor and so were both my parents. My dads a full professor at a prestigious university and my mother was a pediatrician.

Frigging bigot. Things change. Move (on).

Yeah, I get what your saying; Although a lot of Asians are smart. It's the Mexicans that piss me off!

NO OFFENCE!!! ^

its not normal, but i dont see anything wrong with it as long as youre not judging any vietnamese person you see.

i live in an extremeley diverse area, and i can tell you that i do have certain races/nationalities that i like and dislike. (as a whole, i would never judge a new person based on this)

like russians, mexicans, chinese.

i swear im not a racist (i have tons of mexican friends, and a lot of chinese family members) but i just know a LOT of people from those nationalities that i cant stand. so i think its only logical to dislike that nationality.

and i also have the races/nationalities i like blacks, italians, most hispanics, japanese, jewish people.

ok now i just sound like a crazy person. russians really piss me off though.

I kinda hate them because people are more familiar with Vietnamese people than Laos people (that would be me). But I don't specifically hate them. I used to hate my neighbors because they made the concrete black and the sidewalk full of trash! Our neighborhood is very clean and modern but, it really embarrassed us. The kids were annoying too. Playing with our dog and making it bark all night long. and blaming US for it biting him when there was a "BEWARE OF DOG "SIGN!!! -.-

exactly fodd. i would hate an annoying ass gang of vietnamese just as much as i would hate an annoying ass gang of white people

where do you live?

The Vietnamese are vile and inconsiderate people. They're very rude. Very selfish and smart for themselves.

I love how simple convos can turn into a heated argument. Its entertainment.

Cunning and rude

Today, I hate Vietnamese people as usual.

I totally agree! But the worst of any race would contain people with these traits and worse. You see that people similar to another are attracted to each other explaining why they all live in that area. The difference between good and bad people is just that, race has nothing to do with it. A good Viet I don't need to explain, but a bad Vietnamese is just bad to all no matter your race, even if you're viet.

I remember before coming to Vietnam that I felt really excited. I was learning the language, chatting with a Vietnamese guy that was cool, and overall couldn't wait.

One year later, I really feel disappointed beyond belief. Bobo and I_enuj said it all already. I even have a Vietnamese boyfriend that I love, and to be honest, I feel the purest love from him -- compared to American boyfriends from the past. But it's definitely from a horrible dependence on others. He loves me because he needs someone to love. Maybe that's enough, but anyway, on to what I wanted to say...

After living solely with Vietnamese my whole time here, I've witnessed many worrisome things. The Vietnamese people are ignorant, yet like others have said, they really, really believe with all their hearts that they're super smart. And some are.

But everyone that most of the children have ever looked up to have steered them in awful directions.

Many parents, like others have said, expect ABSOLUTE obedience/submission. Sure, my mother wanted me to respect her rules, too -- but she never got me know in trouble for something petty.

Example -- one colleague, Vietnamese girl, told me the other day that her father got upset because she booked a bad restaurant. The poor girl tried her best. She looked at reviews, comment, etc. But their experience wasn't good. So her father got angry with her...as if SHE HAD ANY REAL POWER OVER ANYTHING THAT HAPPENED. She told me he was mad because he "lost face".

What a load of shite, for real. I feel that the "losing face" thing in Vietnam is kept around just for scared men to control everyone else.

That's the biggest problem, perhaps. Old men, scared of the ever changing world, scared of not being able to take money from everyone -- they're the ones running the country. They're the ones driving like idiots on the roads, whether on bikes or in cars. They talk shit even more than the women.

I see these children here, and I just feel that...if someone could change many of the parents' thinking, things could go better. It's sad to see.

Yeah, never really met a Vietnamese person i would really call my friend. Met a few decent fellows. None of them too pleasant to socialize with though

COMPLETELY NORMAL. YOU DON'T HAVE AN OUTLET. PLAY SOCCER.

I am of East Asian decent myself, but I see a lot of downsides in East Asian culture. Vietnamese culture fits into this bigger picture of East Asians (Esp. Women) being, cunning, calculating, cold-hearted, and selfish. BUT, unlike the Chinese/Japanese/Korean whose savviness and brightness a lot of the times overcomes those bad traits, the Vietnamese still operates these traits on a childish level. THEY ASSUME EVERYONE ELSE IS DUMB AND CAN BE MANIPULATED EASILY.
I have had a few business dealings with the Vietnamese Immigrants in the U.S, most of them went sour because the Viets were blatantly trying to rip me off.
They don't understand how to do business, how to run politics, how to govern. They are short-sighted, yet believed themselves to be clever. They are too selfish to see a greater good outside of themselves.

Firstly, I thought that not many people hated Vietnamese people. But I typed 'I hate Vietnamese' into Google and the amount of racism against Vietnamese there is simply unbelievable & shocking (even though I am not Vietnamese)!! The amount of racism there is notably higher than, say, Koreans. I'll give you 1 example. 1 Netizen was curious why people hated Vietnamese. She/he said that a Vietnamese friend(?) was on a online forum thing. She was asked what ethnicity she was. She said Vietnamese. The person left very fast!! Now that is scary racism!! Gosh!! I think I know why people hate Vietnamese but I won't say it. It's a reason I've never seen mentioned online but I have a feeling THAT'S IT.

I try to ask a question like this about jews or white people and that shit gets shot down right away.

Real nice IIN, i see your true colors now, including the bullshit suicide hotline number

I'm frustrated that my twice reply to Vietdoc did not show for the readers who don't register to read.

You are a doctor but you are so poor with number. Before you claimed that there are ,more Vietnamese professional people in the jobs, you ought to learn about the population of your Vietnamese in Vietnam and about the population of others.Laos has barely 4 million people, not including the intruders (Vietnamese); Cambodia has about ~ 5 millions after their famous killing field may be included with the intruders (Vietnamese hidden soldiers inside Pol Pot army dressed as Khmer civilians), Thailand has about 65 million people, but Thailand is a peaceful country, the Thais are not refugees as the Vietnamese, Khmers and Laotians. The same applies to Malaysia and Indonesia. Their countries are not suffering from a warmonger like in Vietnam, thus you cannot compare yourself a refugee to others who are not here many like yours. Their countries are peaceful countries they have no reason to pouring by boats to the US or other western countries like the Vietnamese. The population of Cambodia today rises up to around 14 million people including the intruders (Vietnamese) about ~5 to 6 millions in Cambodia. I estimated this I didn't include the warmongers (hundred thousand of Viet soldiers) hiding all over Cambodia, in island: Koh Kong, and at the Thai-Khmer border.