Is it normal to hate ur mum

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I have always hated my mum. She is the most horrible person on earth and I wish she left and never came back. She always thinks she is right and takes pleasure out of making me upset. She never cares about any of the good things that I do, but she will go crazy on the smallest thing possible. I have two younger siblings, and she has been hitting them since they were three. She takes her anger out on us. When I was eight years old, I ran away from home, I had had enough. I went on the 295 bus from Shepherd's Bush to Fulham, and went to my aunties house. I just can't stand her. She hates me. She say things like "I wish you get run over by a bus on your way to school", and "the biggest burden of my life was you" I just wish she died. ISTHIS NORMAL?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I don't think it's normal in general, but rather I think it's normal for people who have had an excessively bad relationship with their mothers, especially if she is or was an abusive and or neglectful parent.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      And you think that's an excuse or a reason for being abusive? I can assure you that it's possible to be mistreated, sexually abused and neglected and not pass it on to the next generation, that's a choice to make.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Huh? No, I don't think having a abusive or neglectful parent is an excuse for someone to grow up to be a bad parent. I think you may have misread and or misinterpreted what I wrote.

        I was essentially stating that's not abnormal for someone who has been the victim of any sort of abuse or neglect by one or both parents to have feelings of hatred toward one or both parents.

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  • Randomkid
    7 years ago

    Please leave comments

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    • Jamey
      7 years ago

      It depends on how you were brought up

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  • jimmythecunt
    7 years ago

    I think that you need to take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror and contemplate exactly what it is that you do that makes your poor Mother so despondent with you?

    I am sure you will find a answer if you are completely truthful to yourself!

    Your Mother loves you dearly or she would not have bothered to come and fetch you back from your Aunt`s place!

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Regardless of what OP might be doing or not doing, telling your child h/she should be run over by a bus is not inexcusable, nor is her physical abuse of the younger siblings.

      How do you work out the mother loves her children dearly from the evidence given? Where does it say she fetched OP from the aunt's place? So what anyway? Maybe she wanted OP back to inflict further abuse on her "burden"?

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      • jimmythecunt
        7 years ago

        Ellena
        you clearly are not seeing the bigger picture here. Sometimes, somewhere in this World, there are a lot of "children" that are in actual fact, habitual liars, thieves, masters of deception and in short Hooligans!

        Are you now telling me that all "children" should be treated equally? I say some of these little bastards deserve what they get! What about these lovely "children" we read about that have murdered their parents and their siblings, do they too deserve to be treated with love and respect?

        I think not, I say that you should maintain discipline over your children from a very young age, that way they grow up into fine young adults! I know what I am speaking of as I have four grown children with four grandchildren.

        Sometimes during ones parenting career one needs to be cruel to be kind!

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago

          You're judging OP with no evidence whatsoever and the fact that some kids kill their parents is totally irrelevant: some parents kill, abuse and sexually abuse their children too.

          I think you'd find that children who kill siblings and/or parents have not in fact been treated with love and respect.

          Your last sentence is just an excuse for abuse: it's a stupid meaningless cliche.

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          • jimmythecunt
            7 years ago

            Well i rest my case, I believe in the Bible verse which says, Spare the rod and spoil the child!

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